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Amanda Stanton

Amanda Stanton (born April 9, 1990) is an American reality television personality, author, actress, and former esthetician best known for her participation in the Bachelor franchise, where she competed on season 20 of The Bachelor and won season 3 of Bachelor in Paradise. Born in Mission Viejo, California, Stanton began her career with minor acting roles in projects such as The Cheetah Girls 2 (2006), Merry Christmas, Drake & Josh (2008), and Kissing Strangers (2010), before transitioning into fashion blogging and working as an esthetician in Orange County. In 2016, Stanton joined The Bachelor season 20 as a contestant vying for ' affection, ultimately placing fourth before being eliminated in week 8; she then appeared on Bachelor in Paradise season 3, where she coupled with and became engaged to Josh Murray, though the pair split later that year. A single mother at the time of her reality TV debut, Stanton shares two daughters, Kinsley (born 2012) and Charlie (born 2014), from her first marriage to Nick Buonfiglio, which ended in divorce in 2015. She later authored the Now Accepting Roses in 2019, reflecting on her experiences in the franchise and offering dating advice drawn from her journey. Stanton's personal life has included high-profile relationships and challenges, such as her 2016 engagement to and a 2018 on domestic charges involving then-boyfriend Bobby Jacobs, which she detailed in her as stemming from a mutual altercation. In 2022, she married Michael Fogel, and the couple welcomed their first child together, daughter Rosie, on January 24, 2024, expanding Stanton's family to three children. Throughout her public career, Stanton has leveraged her platform as a influencer, amassing over a million followers while advocating for single motherhood and self-empowerment.

Early life

Childhood and family background

Amanda Stanton was born on April 9, 1990, in . She spent her formative years growing up in the suburban community of in , where she experienced a relatively private family life away from the public eye. Stanton's family included her sister, Carissa Stanton, who later became known as a food blogger and cookbook author. Little is publicly known about her parents' backgrounds or professions, as Stanton has maintained regarding her pre-fame family dynamics. During her childhood and early teenage years, she navigated typical suburban experiences in , which fostered a sense of independence that would later influence her personal narrative. By her mid-teens, Stanton showed an early interest in entertainment, securing a minor role in the Original Movie at age 16. This introduction to highlighted her budding passion for performance and media, setting the stage for her transition into esthetician training as a natural extension of her interests in beauty and self-expression.

Education

Amanda Stanton attended Paul Mitchell the School in , where she completed the esthetician program, a vocational course focused on professional skincare and beauty techniques. The program provided hands-on training in essential skills such as skin analysis, facials, , makeup application, and salon procedures, equipping her with the foundational knowledge for entry into the beauty industry. These competencies emphasized both classical methods and contemporary skincare innovations, preparing graduates for roles involving client consultations and personalized treatments. In her memoir Now Accepting Roses, Stanton reflects on navigating her early adult responsibilities, including family dynamics, while committing to this specialized education that aligned with her professional aspirations.

Career

Early career

Stanton's entry into the professional world began with minor roles in film and television during her late teens and early twenties. In 2006, she made an uncredited appearance as Amy in the Disney Channel Original Movie The Cheetah Girls 2, a musical comedy that followed the adventures of a girl group on vacation in Barcelona. This marked her initial foray into acting, leveraging her youthful presence in a high-profile youth-oriented production. Two years later, in 2008, Stanton took on the role of a "hot girl" in the Nickelodeon TV movie Merry Christmas, Drake & Josh, a holiday special featuring the popular sibling duo navigating family chaos during the festive season. These early credits were small but provided her with on-set experience in comedic and ensemble settings. By 2010, Stanton secured a more prominent part as Mr. Koster's Daughter in the independent romantic comedy Kissing Strangers, where she portrayed a character involved in a quirky plot about strangers kissing to win a bet. This role represented a step up in visibility compared to her previous background work, though the film received limited distribution. Despite these acting opportunities, Stanton's pursuits in entertainment remained sporadic, reflecting the challenges of breaking into the industry without major representation. Transitioning from acting, Stanton pursued a in the beauty industry, drawing on her esthetician training to work in and salon services in . Based in , she focused on providing facials, waxing, and other cosmetic treatments, establishing herself as a licensed professional in the field before her public profile expanded. Her role as an esthetician offered a stable foundation, allowing her to apply technical skills in client-facing environments while navigating the demands of early adulthood.

Reality television

Amanda Stanton first gained prominence in reality television through her appearance on season 20 of The Bachelor, which premiered on January 4, 2016, and starred Ben Higgins as the bachelor. As one of the 28 initial contestants, Stanton, a single mother from Orange County, California, quickly became a fan favorite for her candid discussions about balancing motherhood with dating. She received a one-on-one date in episode 6, where she and Higgins bonded over shared values, earning her a rose and advancing to the top eight. During the hometown dates in episode 8, aired on February 22, 2016, Stanton introduced Higgins to her daughters, Kinsley (age 3) and Charlie (age 2), highlighting her life as a single parent after her divorce; however, Higgins eliminated her at the subsequent rose ceremony, placing her fourth overall. Following her exit from The Bachelor, Stanton joined the cast of Bachelor in Paradise for its third season, which filmed in June 2016 and aired from August 2 to September 20, 2016. On the show, she formed a romantic connection with Josh Murray, a contestant from season 10 of The Bachelorette, amid the beachside dating format in Vallarta-Nayarit, Mexico. Their relationship progressed rapidly, culminating in Murray proposing to Stanton during the season finale on September 20, 2016, after they mutually decided to couple exclusively and forgo further dates with others. The engagement was celebrated as a "win" for the season, with the pair expressing plans to blend their lives, including Murray meeting Stanton's children. The couple's post-show romance faced challenges, leading to their in December 2016, just months after the proposal aired. Stanton confirmed the split publicly on January 3, 2017, at a Bachelor charity event, stating they had decided to end the amicably but wished each other well. The quick dissolution drew significant media attention, amplifying Stanton's visibility within the Bachelor franchise and sparking discussions about the pressures of reality TV relationships. Despite brief rumors of reconciliation in early 2017, the pair confirmed their permanent separation by February. Stanton returned for a second stint on Bachelor in Paradise in season 4, which aired from August 7 to September 25, 2017. Arriving mid-season, she coupled with Robby Hayes, a fellow alum from season 20, but their connection faltered due to compatibility issues, leading her to leave the show single in episode 8. This appearance marked her final on-screen role in the franchise up to 2017, further solidifying her status as a recurring figure in Bachelor Nation.

Writing and influencing

Following her participation in Bachelor in Paradise, Stanton launched a focused on style, beauty, and tips. This digital pivot, catalyzed by her exposure, established her as an influencer, culminating in over 1.1 million followers by 2025. In September 2019, Stanton published her Now Accepting Roses: Finding Myself While Searching for the One . . . and Other Lessons I Learned from The , released on September 3 by BenBella Books. The book blends with advisory elements, recounting behind-the-scenes anecdotes from her Bachelor franchise experiences, insights on romantic relationships, and reflections on single parenthood. It features anonymized discussions of past relationships, highlighting personal growth without divulging identifying details about ex-partners. By the mid-2020s, Stanton's influencing work emphasized sponsored content and brand collaborations, often integrating family themes into her posts on , wellness, and daily routines. For instance, in October 2025, she shared highlights of her daughters' participation in a at the Glam Z Gala, where they walked the in youth-focused designs, drawing enthusiastic responses from her Bachelor Nation audience. From 2024 onward, Stanton's career shifted toward vlogging, with content centered on relatable motherhood moments, home-cooked meals, and routines, alongside partnerships with brands in apparel and cosmetics. This evolution allowed her to maintain authenticity while expanding her reach through collaborative promotions that aligned with her personal brand.

Personal life

Relationships and marriages

Amanda Stanton was first married to Nick Buonfiglio, a salesman. The couple wed on October 11, 2012, in . They separated on December 10, 2014, citing , with the finalized on June 15, 2015. Stanton later described the marriage's end as stemming from their young age—she was 26 at the time of the wedding—and Buonfiglio's focus on socializing, frequenting bars, taking trips to , and dating multiple women via , while she prioritized caring for their infant daughters. The former couple maintains a co-parenting arrangement. Following her divorce, Stanton's romantic life gained public attention through her appearances on . In August 2016, during the filming of Bachelor in Paradise season 3, she got engaged to fellow contestant Josh Murray, a former player; the proposal aired on September 7, 2016. The engagement ended in December 2016, as the pair determined they were incompatible and "two very different people." In early 2018, Stanton began dating professional player Bobby Jacobs. The relationship lasted nearly a year before ending in April 2019. Stanton met Michael Fogel, a businessman, through mutual friends in 2020; their platonic connection turned romantic in 2021. Fogel proposed in December 2021, and the couple married on September 2, 2022, in an intimate ceremony at Kestrel Park in . As of 2025, Stanton and Fogel remain married.

Children

Amanda Stanton is a mother to three daughters. Her eldest, Kinsley Mae Stanton, was born on April 24, 2012, and her second daughter, Charlie Mae Stanton, was born on January 24, 2014; both are from her first marriage to Nick Buonfiglio. In her 2019 Now Accepting Roses: Finding Myself While Searching for the One (and Other Lessons I Learned from The Bachelor), Stanton reflects on the challenges of early single motherhood, including navigating at age 24 while raising two young children as a full-time parent in . Stanton's third daughter, Rosie Fogel, was born on January 24, 2024, marking her first child with husband Michael Fogel. The birth was described by Stanton as traumatic, involving a rapid delivery that required an emergency C-section after she experienced severe pain and complications during labor at home; she later shared these details publicly to raise awareness about postpartum recovery. In a March 2025 social media post, Stanton discussed the contrasts in her experiences, noting how having children at ages 21–24 lacked the maturity, , and support systems she now has at 33, allowing for a more balanced approach with Rosie amid her blended family. Her experiences as a young were a key part of her story when she joined The Bachelor in 2016. Stanton's family life emphasizes blended dynamics, with her daughters forming close bonds; for instance, on October 20, 2025, Kinsley, Charlie, and Rosie participated in a fashion show benefiting St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, where the older girls modeled prom dresses and Rosie joined for family photos, highlighting their shared activities and sibling interactions. In September 2018, Amanda Stanton was arrested in on one count of misdemeanor battery following an altercation with her then-boyfriend, Bobby Jacobs, at a after a ; according to the police report, Stanton allegedly shoved Jacobs, resulting in a minor injury to his arm. The Department responded to the incident, determining there was for the arrest based on witness statements from hotel security. On December 12, 2018, the Clark County District Attorney's Office dismissed the case due to insufficient evidence, with Stanton entering a not guilty plea prior to the hearing. Stanton later addressed the incident in her 2019 memoir Now Accepting Roses: Finding Myself While Searching for the One (and Other Lessons I Learned from The Bachelor), describing it as an embarrassing moment stemming from intoxication and a misguided attempt to intervene in a dispute, expressing regret without admitting fault. Among other civil matters, in 2016, a court modified payments from Stanton's ex-husband, Nick Buonfiglio, reducing them from $2,000 to $530 per month for their two daughters, citing changes in incomes—with Stanton's reported at approximately $13,000 monthly and her then-fiancé Josh Murray at $10,000 monthly—following her increased earnings from . In 2019, Moonstone Vintage LA sued Stanton in Santa Monica Superior Court for $4,996, alleging breach of contract after she received a $3,249 Chanel handbag in exchange for promoting it on Instagram during Coachella; the shop claimed she failed to properly tag them in posts to her 1.2 million followers until two days later, seeking return of the bag's value plus shipping costs. Additionally, in 2018, Discover Bank filed a lawsuit against Stanton in Orange County Superior Court for $1,379.52 in unpaid credit card debt. No significant legal issues involving Stanton have been reported since 2019.

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