Melissa Rauch
Melissa Rauch (born June 23, 1980) is an American actress, comedian, producer, and writer, best known for portraying Dr. Bernadette Rostenkowski-Wolowitz on the long-running CBS sitcom The Big Bang Theory from 2009 to 2019.[1][2] Born in Marlboro Township, New Jersey, to parents David and Susan Rauch, she developed an early interest in performing arts and attended Marlboro High School before pursuing higher education at Marymount Manhattan College in New York City, where she earned a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree in acting in 2002.[1][3] While in college, Rauch honed her skills through stand-up comedy and created her one-woman show The Miss Education of Jenna Bush, which premiered off-Broadway and won the Outstanding Solo Show award at the New York International Fringe Festival in 2005.[2] Her early career included guest appearances on television series such as True Blood, The Office, and Kath & Kim, establishing her as a versatile comedic talent before her breakthrough role on The Big Bang Theory.[4] Rauch's post-Big Bang Theory career has encompassed leading roles in film and television, including co-writing, producing, and starring in the sports comedy The Bronze, which opened the 2015 Sundance Film Festival, as well as voicing Harley Quinn in the animated film Batman and Harley Quinn (2017).[2] In 2023, she took on the lead role of Judge Abby Stone in the NBC reboot of Night Court, which she also executive produced and which became one of the network's top comedies, running for three seasons until its cancellation in 2025.[1][5] Rauch received a Screen Actors Guild Award nomination for her work on The Big Bang Theory and has been recognized for her advocacy in STEM education, particularly for young girls.[1] She resides in Los Angeles with her husband, writer and producer Winston Rauch (married in 2007), and their two children, daughter Sadie (born 2017) and son Brooks (born 2020).[6][2][7]Early life
Family and upbringing
Melissa Rauch was born on June 23, 1980, in Marlboro Township, New Jersey, to Jewish parents David and Susan Rauch.[8] Raised in a suburban environment, she grew up in a supportive family that encouraged her creative pursuits from an early age.[9] Her Jewish heritage played a significant role in her upbringing, including observance of traditions such as Passover seders and her bat mitzvah, which featured a themed "Melissa’s Comedy Club" celebration complete with a stand-up routine she performed for family and friends.[10][11] Rauch has a brother, Ben, who is also an actor and has collaborated with her on projects.[12] Her family provided a modest yet nurturing setting, with parents who took her on memorable trips, such as to the filming location of the original Night Court series, fostering her passion for entertainment.[10] The dynamics at home emphasized warmth and humor, particularly during family dinners where Rauch often imitated her mother's mannerisms, an influence that later shaped her comedic style and resilience.[10] From around age five or six, Rauch showed an early interest in performing arts, participating in school plays and local theater productions in New Jersey.[8] Inspired by taped late-night comedy shows and performers like Ellen DeGeneres, she began imitating comedians such as Don Knotts to entertain her family, delaying bedtimes with laughter.[8][10] Family storytelling and comedy routines during gatherings, combined with Jewish cultural observances, helped cultivate her distinctive comedic timing, evident even in her bat mitzvah performance.[10] Notably, her mother's high-pitched voice with a New Jersey accent became a key influence, which Rauch later adapted for her role as Bernadette on The Big Bang Theory.[8][11]Education
Rauch attended Marlboro High School in Marlboro Township, New Jersey, where she developed a strong interest in acting under the guidance of an encouraging theater teacher who taught her foundational skills in performance.[3][13] After graduating high school, she pursued formal training at Marymount Manhattan College in New York City, earning a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree in acting in 2002.[14][15] At Marymount, Rauch received classical training in acting techniques, voice work, and movement, which sharpened her abilities in character development and comedic delivery; she also engaged in performing arts activities, including stand-up comedy performances around Manhattan, to build practical experience for professional auditions.[3][15][14] Upon graduation, she remained in New York City to transition into professional work, taking on roles in off-Broadway productions that marked her entry into the theater scene.[16]Career
Early career
After graduating from Marymount Manhattan College with a BFA in acting, Melissa Rauch moved to New York City in the early 2000s to launch her career in theater and comedy. She quickly immersed herself in the city's vibrant performance scene, performing stand-up and sketch comedy at venues such as the Upright Citizens Brigade Theatre, where she developed her improvisational skills and comedic timing through regular appearances.[17][18] Rauch's early theater work included off-Broadway productions that showcased her versatility. In 2005, she starred as a rebellious University of Texas co-ed in a revival of Beth Henley's The Miss Firecracker Contest at the 78th Street Theater Lab. That same year, she earned critical acclaim for her one-woman show The Miss Education of Jenna Bush, a satirical portrayal of Jenna Bush Hager as a novice teacher, which premiered at the New York International Fringe Festival and won Outstanding Solo Show along with TheaterMania's Audience Favorite Award. She also toured nationally with the political satire troupe Gross National Product, appearing in their off-Broadway run in New York City featuring sketches like Son of a Bush and Kerry the Musical.[19][17][20] Complementing her stage work, Rauch broke into television as a regular contributor to VH1's Best Week Ever from 2004 to 2008, delivering witty pop culture commentary in segments that highlighted her quick humor. Her initial on-screen acting roles were minor guest spots, including the role of Summer, Hoyt Fortenberry's girlfriend, in season three of HBO's True Blood in 2009.[21] Throughout the mid-2000s, Rauch navigated significant professional hurdles, including relentless audition rejections for pilots that often failed to materialize and financial precarity that led her to rely on unemployment benefits while handing out fliers for sparsely attended stand-up gigs. These hardships, including moments of emotional exhaustion like crying in her car after setbacks, ultimately shaped her resilient and adaptable comedic approach before her breakthrough in 2009.[22][23][17]The Big Bang Theory
Melissa Rauch joined the cast of The Big Bang Theory in 2009, debuting as Bernadette Rostenkowski in the third season's fifth episode, "The Creepy Candy Coating Corollary," aired on October 19, 2009. Initially cast as a recurring character to serve as a love interest for Howard Wolowitz, her role was expanded due to positive reception, and she was promoted to the main cast starting in season 4 in 2010.[24] During her audition, Rauch adopted a distinctive high-pitched voice for the character, drawing inspiration from her mother's vocal tone to add a layer of assertiveness and quirkiness not specified in the script.[25] Bernadette Rostenkowski-Wolowitz is portrayed as a highly educated microbiologist with a Ph.D., working at a pharmaceutical company developing treatments for infectious diseases.[26] Introduced as a waitress at the Cheesecake Factory and Howard's girlfriend, her character arc evolves significantly over the series' 10 seasons from 2009 to 2019, transitioning from a peripheral love interest to a central figure in the ensemble. She marries Howard in season 5, becomes a mother to two children—daughter Halley and son Neil Michael—and emerges as an assertive, no-nonsense matriarch who often mediates group dynamics with her sharp wit and scientific expertise, solidifying her as an integral member of the friend circle.[27] Behind the scenes, Rauch faced challenges in embodying Bernadette, including frequent jokes about the character's—and her own—short stature of 4 feet 11 inches, which she incorporated into her performance to enhance the comedic contrast with her authoritative presence.[24] Maintaining the high-pitched voice for extended periods also led to vocal strain, requiring her to work with coaches to preserve her health over the long run of the series.[25] Additionally, Rauch's real-life pregnancies influenced the storyline; her second pregnancy in 2017 was written into Bernadette's arc, depicting the character on bed rest as a precaution, mirroring Rauch's experiences following a prior miscarriage to add authenticity to the narrative.[28] The role of Bernadette marked a pivotal breakthrough for Rauch, appearing in 209 episodes across the show's 279 total, establishing it as her longest-running project and catapulting her to widespread recognition.[29] Her nuanced portrayal generated significant Emmy buzz among critics and fans for its blend of vulnerability and strength, boosting her visibility and leading to lucrative contract negotiations, including a reported [$500,000](/page/500) per episode by the later seasons.[30]Film and writing projects
Rauch made her feature film debut in a small role in the 2009 comedy I Love You, Man, directed by John Hamburg, where she appeared as a woman jogger yelling at the character played by Jason Segel.[31] This cameo marked her entry into cinematic work, building on her comedic timing honed through earlier stage and television appearances.[32] Rauch's most significant film project to date is The Bronze (2015), a dark comedy she co-wrote with her husband, Winston Rauch, in which she also starred as the lead character, Hope Ann Greggory, a washed-up former Olympic gymnast clinging to her faded glory.[33] She further served as an executive producer on the film, which was directed by Bryan Buckley and premiered as the opening night selection at the 2015 Sundance Film Festival, where it was acquired by Relativity Media for $3 million.[34] The screenplay drew from Rauch's personal experiences of feeling stuck in transitional periods of her career, such as unemployment or unfulfilling jobs, though she emphasized that the gymnastics elements were researched extensively rather than autobiographical.[35] Despite a mixed critical reception, with a 37% Tomatometer score on Rotten Tomatoes based on 98 reviews, the film was praised for Rauch's bold, unlikable portrayal of Hope, showcasing her ability to subvert expectations of the "likable" female lead in comedy.[36] In subsequent years, Rauch took on supporting roles in ensemble films, including Ode to Joy (2019), directed by Jason Winer, where she played Bethany, a sharp-witted friend in a story about a man navigating a rare neurological condition. That same year, she appeared in Steven Soderbergh's The Laundromat, a satirical drama based on the Panama Papers scandal, portraying Melanie, the daughter of the central character played by Meryl Streep. These roles highlighted her versatility in blending humor with dramatic elements, though her writing output remained limited due to her ongoing television commitments, underscoring her multifaceted contributions as an actress, writer, and producer in independent cinema.[17]Later television and voice work
Following the conclusion of The Big Bang Theory in 2019, Melissa Rauch made select guest appearances on other television series. In 2024, she portrayed Abby, a character entangled in a whirlwind romance during Fashion Week in New York, in an episode of HBO's Curb Your Enthusiasm season 12.[37] Rauch took on a prominent leading role in the NBC revival of Night Court, which premiered in January 2023. She starred as Judge Abby Stone, the idealistic daughter of the original series' late Judge Harry Stone (played by Harry Anderson in the 1980s version), while executive producing the multi-camera sitcom alongside creator Dan Rubin.[38] The series ran for three seasons, delivering comedic takes on Manhattan's night-shift arraignment court, and featured returning cast member John Larroquette as public defender Dan Fielding.[39] It incorporated nostalgic crossovers from The Big Bang Theory, including a season 3 guest appearance by Mayim Bialik as an exaggerated version of herself, highlighting Rauch's ongoing ties to her breakthrough role.[40] NBC canceled the show on May 9, 2025, shortly after the season 3 finale aired, despite efforts to secure syndication or a new network home.[41] In addition to live-action work, Rauch continued her voice acting career with several animated projects. She voiced Harley Quinn (Harleen Quinzel) in the 2017 DC animated film Batman and Harley Quinn, bringing a playful yet chaotic energy to the iconic character. Post-2019, her credits included Marie in an episode of Hulu's Animaniacs reboot (2020), additional voices in the family film Cats & Dogs 3: Paws Unite! (2020), characters in Disney Junior's The Chicken Squad (2021), and roles in the preschool series Firebuds (2022).[29] As of November 2025, no new television series for Rauch have been announced following the Night Court cancellation, though she has expressed interest in future pilots through her production company, After January Productions, which holds a first-look deal with Warner Bros. Television.[42] The industry's recovery from the 2023 strikes has influenced her focus on selective, high-impact projects.[43]Personal life
Marriage and family
Melissa Rauch married writer and producer Winston Rauch (born Winston Beigel) on October 11, 2007, after meeting him during their freshman year at Marymount Manhattan College in New York City. The couple, who collaborate professionally on projects including screenplays, prioritize maintaining privacy around their personal lives while sharing occasional insights into their partnership. Winston adopted his wife's surname following the wedding, a decision that reflected their close creative and emotional bond. Rauch and her husband welcomed their first child, daughter Sadie Rauch, on December 4, 2017. Their second child, son Brooks Rauch, arrived on May 4, 2020, during the early months of the COVID-19 pandemic, with Winston joining the birth virtually via FaceTime due to hospital restrictions while caring for Sadie at home. The family resides in Los Angeles, where Rauch balances her demanding acting and producing schedule with low-key parenting, often describing motherhood as her most fulfilling role and a source of profound joy. She has incorporated elements of her experiences as a parent into her work, such as selecting projects that align with family priorities and drawing on real-life maternal perspectives to inform character development in series like Night Court. Rauch has publicly discussed her fertility challenges, including a miscarriage prior to Sadie's birth, in a candid 2017 essay for Glamour and a subsequent public service announcement alongside figures like Nancy Kerrigan to destigmatize pregnancy loss and encourage open conversations about reproductive struggles.Philanthropy
In 2021, Melissa Rauch co-founded the nonprofit organization Oscar's Kids alongside her husband, Winston Rauch, and the parents of Oscar Keogh, Yavanna and Lar Keogh, to honor the memory of their young friend who succumbed to diffuse intrinsic pontine glioma (DIPG), a rare and aggressive form of pediatric brain cancer.[44][45] The organization operates transatlantic chapters, with the U.S. arm fiscally sponsored by the Entertainment Industry Foundation, focusing on funding research into childhood cancers—particularly underfunded areas like DIPG, which receives less than 4% of federal pediatric cancer research allocations—while providing emotional and practical support to affected families.[44][45] Inspired by her personal friendship with Oscar and the profound impact of his illness on their shared circle, Rauch has emphasized using humor and celebrity connections to raise awareness and create "magic moments," such as virtual or in-person interactions between terminally ill children and entertainers.[42][45] The official launch of Oscar's Kids U.S. occurred in late 2021, marked by events including a high-profile fundraiser that highlighted partnerships with organizations like Ronald McDonald House Charities of Southern California and corporate sponsors such as Pepsi, Quaker, and Warner Bros.[45][42] Rauch has actively participated in advocacy efforts, including speaking at charity events and leveraging her platform for auctions and awareness campaigns; for instance, her appearance on Celebrity Jeopardy! in 2022 generated $30,000 specifically for the organization.[15] Beyond Oscar's Kids, Rauch serves as an advocate for women's health issues, drawing from her experiences with pregnancy loss to produce a public service announcement and contribute writings that promote open discussions on fertility challenges and miscarriage support.[45] By 2025, Oscar's Kids has directed funds toward clinical trials in pediatric neuro-oncology, including research led by Dr. Michelle Monje at Stanford University, and collaborated with the V Foundation to advance treatments for DIPG, which affects approximately 150–300 children annually in the U.S. with a survival rate under 10% beyond two years.[42] As a key ambassador, Rauch continues to highlight the role of comedy in destigmatizing childhood illness, fostering ongoing donor engagement and family aid programs that provide comfort kits and joyful experiences for children in treatment.[44][42]Filmography
Film
| Year | Title | Role | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2006 | Delirious | Megan | Supporting role.[46] |
| 2009 | Adventureland | Woman in diner | Uncredited.[47] |
| 2009 | The Condom Killer | Audra | Short film; also co-director.[48] |
| 2009 | I Love You, Man | Woman Jogger Yelling at Sydney | Supporting role.[31] |
| 2010 | The Social Network | Bettina | Supporting role. |
| 2015 | The Bronze | Hope Ann Greggory | Lead role; also co-writer and executive producer. |
| 2016 | Flock of Dudes | Jamie | Supporting role.[49] |
| 2016 | Ice Age: Collision Course | Francine | Voice.[50] |
| 2017 | Batman and Harley Quinn | Harley Quinn / Harleen Quinzel | Voice.[51] |
| 2019 | Ode to Joy | Marta | Supporting role. |
| 2019 | The Laundromat | Sheila | Supporting role. |
| 2020 | Cats & Dogs 3: Paws Unite! | Gwen | Voice.[52] |