My Dearest

My Dearest (Korean: 연인, Yeon-in) is a South Korean historical drama television series that aired in 2023, centering on a romance between a mysterious wanderer and a noblewoman during the Manchu invasion of Joseon.^[1] Set against the real historical event of the Qing forces' incursion into Joseon Korea from December 1636 to January 1637, which compelled King Injo's surrender and led to significant societal disruption including abductions and economic strain, the series follows Yoo Gil-chae (Ahn Eun-jin), a headstrong yangban woman navigating betrothals and personal ambitions, and Lee Jang-hyun (Namkoong Min), an enigmatic outsider who intervenes in her life repeatedly amid the chaos.^[2] Written by Kim Yi-jin and directed by Kim Jin-min, it broadcast 20 episodes on MBC from August 4 to October 14, 2023, in two parts, achieving peak viewership ratings above 12% domestically.^[3] The production received acclaim for its character-driven narrative, Namkoong Min's portrayal earning him the Daesang at the 2023 MBC Drama Awards, though some critiques noted pacing issues in the latter episodes.^[4]

Historical Context

The Qing Invasion of Joseon

The Qing invasion of Joseon commenced on the tenth day of the twelfth lunar month of 1636 (December 9 in the Gregorian calendar), when an army under Emperor Hong Taiji crossed the Amnok River (Yalu River) into northern Joseon territory. This offensive, involving Manchu bannermen augmented by Mongol and Han Chinese auxiliaries, targeted Joseon's persistent allegiance to the Ming dynasty, which had refused to acknowledge Qing legitimacy despite prior border skirmishes and a 1627 incursion. The invasion exploited Joseon's military unpreparedness, as its forces were configured primarily for defensive warfare against Japanese threats rather than mobile northern campaigns in harsh winter conditions.^[5]^[6] Joseon's King Injo, who had seized the throne in a 1623 coup, mobilized approximately 100,000 troops but faced rapid Qing advances; Pyongyang fell within days, prompting Injo's retreat to the fortified Namhan Mountain Fortress on December 14. The ensuing siege lasted over a month, with Qing forces blockading supply lines and bombarding defenses, leading to severe shortages of food and ammunition among the defenders. Internal discord, including the defection of key commander Yi Gwal early in the campaign, compounded Joseon's collapse, as his rebellion diverted reinforcements and exposed southern flanks. By late January 1637, starvation and desertions forced capitulation.^[5]^[6] On the thirtieth day of the first lunar month of 1637 (January 30 Gregorian), King Injo descended from Namhan and formally surrendered at Samjeondo on the Han River, performing the ritual sambae kugo turye—three prostrations and nine kowtows—before Hong Taiji, symbolizing vassalage. The terms imposed severed Joseon-Ming relations, mandated the dispatch of royal princes and officials as hostages to the Qing capital at Mukden (Shenyang), and required military support against Ming remnants. Qing records and Joseon annals document limited but targeted atrocities, including post-surrender pillaging by Mongol auxiliaries—halted by imperial orders—and the enslavement of select elites, such as the abduction of noblewomen for concubinage in Qing households, though systematic massacres were not as extensive as in contemporaneous Ming campaigns.^[5]^[6] The invasion inflicted demographic losses estimated in the tens of thousands from combat, starvation, and flight, disproportionately affecting northern populations and yangban elites whose families supplied hostages. Economically, it disrupted agriculture and trade routes, imposing reconstruction burdens alongside obligatory tribute in silver, ginseng, and textiles that strained Joseon's fiscal system for decades. Geopolitically, the conflict entrenched unequal Qing suzerainty under Confucian zongfan hierarchy, positioning Joseon as the Qing's sole enduring tributary until 1895, while fostering internal isolationism (sadae policy) that prioritized ritual subservience over expansion, underscoring the realist dynamics of Manchu military superiority over Joseon's ideological fidelity to Ming cultural norms.^[5]^[6] Society in 17th-century Joseon was rigidly stratified under Neo-Confucian principles, which emphasized hierarchical order, moral cultivation, and familial duty as foundational to social stability. The yangban class, comprising scholar-officials and military elites, occupied the apex, deriving status from success in civil service examinations testing Confucian classics and their application to governance and ethics.^[7] Male yangban authority extended over household and community, prioritizing scholarly pursuits, landownership, and ritual propriety, while excluding women from public roles and formal education.^[8] Below them were commoners (sangmin), including peasants who tilled the land and merchants who faced disdain despite economic necessity, and cheonmin outcasts relegated to menial tasks.^[9] Gender roles were delineated by Confucian doctrines of the "three obediences," mandating women's subservience to father before marriage, husband thereafter, and son in widowhood, reinforcing patriarchal family structures. Yangban women experienced strict seclusion in inner quarters (anbang), limiting mobility to preserve chastity and family honor, with any perceived violation—such as abduction or premarital relations—resulting in social ostracism or worse, as purity defined a woman's value and lineage legitimacy.^[8]^[10] Marriage customs were arranged by families to consolidate alliances and status, often occurring in adolescence for females (typically by age 14-20), with laws distinguishing primary wives (from equal or higher class) for heir-bearing from secondary concubines, barring widows from remarriage to uphold ancestral rites.^[11] In contrast, gisaeng—state-registered female entertainers from lower classes—provided artistic and conversational companionship to elite men, gaining literacy and skills denied to noblewomen, though their role blurred into concubinage without elevating social standing.^[12] Rural village life, as in areas resembling Neunggun-ri, centered on agrarian communities under yangban oversight, where peasants endured heavy taxation and corvée labor yet maintained communal bonds through mutual aid in farming and rituals. Family loyalty manifested in filial piety and clan solidarity, with villages often organized around extended kin groups that coordinated defense or submission during invasions, reflecting Confucian imperatives of collective resilience over individual autonomy.^[9]^[8] These norms, codified in legal codes like the Gyeongguk Daejeon (1485, revised through the 17th century), prioritized societal harmony through hierarchy, subordinating personal desires to familial and state obligations.

Plot Summary

Part 1: Invasion and Separation

The series opens in the village of Neunggun-ri during a flower festival, introducing Yoo Gil-chae, a spirited daughter of a noble family known for her beauty and flirtatious nature, who harbors unrequited affection for a scholar named Yoon-jeon.^[13]^[14] Lee Jang-hyun, a enigmatic wanderer skilled in the Manchu language and unaligned with Joseon's rigid social structures, arrives and disrupts local dynamics by challenging the scholars' bravado against impending threats from the Qing forces.^[13]^[15] As tensions escalate with reports of Qing maneuvers, the invasion erupts in early 1637, with Manchu troops raiding Neunggun-ri and nearby areas, leading to widespread abductions of women, including Gil-chae and her sister, who are captured and transported to Qing camps amid the chaos of fleeing villagers and collapsing defenses.^[16]^[2] Jang-hyun leverages his linguistic abilities to serve as an interpreter between Qing commanders and Joseon captives, navigating perilous negotiations while attempting to mitigate harm to individuals like Gil-chae, whose defiance emerges as she confronts captors and adapts to survival in the enemy encampment.^[13]^[17] The narrative underscores the war's brutal disruptions, with families torn apart—Gil-chae separated from her father and kin—and Jang-hyun's growing entanglement with her fate amplifying personal stakes against the backdrop of Joseon's surrender demands and internal betrayals among officials.^[14]^[18] By the tenth episode, aired on September 2, 2023, the emotional toll peaks as Gil-chae's resilience in captivity intersects with Jang-hyun's opportunistic maneuvers through Qing-Joseon frictions, heightening the uncertainty of reunion amid ongoing hostilities.^[2]^[18]

My Dearest

Historical Context

The Qing Invasion of Joseon

Social and Cultural Norms in 17th-Century Joseon

Plot Summary

Part 1: Invasion and Separation

References