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All These Small Moments

All These Small Moments is a coming-of-age drama film written and directed by Melissa Miller Costanzo in her feature directorial debut. The film follows 16-year-old Howie as he navigates his parents' deteriorating marriage and develops an with an older woman named whom he encounters daily on his bus commute to school. It explores themes of , family tension, and emotional growth through intimate, slice-of-life vignettes set in . The story centers on the Sheffield family, with Howie's mother Carla (played by ) and father Tom () facing the strains of a potential divorce, which profoundly impacts their son. Howie, portrayed by , becomes entangled in budding relationships, including a friendship with his classmate Lindsay (), while grappling with his unspoken feelings for Odessa (). Additional cast members include Sam McCarthy as Howie's younger brother Simon, contributing to the film's focus on familial dynamics and personal discovery. Shot over 18 days in , the 84-minute film employs a naturalistic style to capture the nuances of everyday life. Premiering at the 2018 , All These Small Moments received a in the United States on , 2019. Critically, it holds an 88% approval rating on based on 17 reviews, with praise for its authentic portrayal of teenage angst and strong ensemble performances, though some noted its melancholic tone. On , it has a 5.7/10 rating from over 800 users, reflecting mixed audience reception that appreciates the emotional depth but critiques its pacing. The film is available for streaming on platforms like and JustWatch-listed services.

Plot and characters

Plot

All These Small Moments centers on Howie , a 16-year-old navigating the complexities of in amid his family's unraveling dynamics and a broken . His parents, Carla and , are on the brink of , creating a tense atmosphere at home that amplifies Howie's emotional struggles as he grapples with feelings of instability and longing for connection. Howie's daily bus rides to school introduce him to Odessa, an enigmatic older woman whose presence sparks an intense infatuation, complicating his already turbulent teenage years. These encounters on the bus become pivotal small moments, where Howie musters the courage for brief interactions, revealing his awkward attempts to explore intimacy and desire beyond his immediate world. Meanwhile, at , Howie forms a budding connection with Lindsay, a peer facing her own personal challenges, including rumors that affect her social standing; their conversations offer glimpses of mutual understanding and support during gym class exemptions in the . The narrative unfolds through key family scenes, such as strained dinners where unspoken resentments surface between Carla and , forcing Howie and his younger brother to confront the reality of their parents' deteriorating . These intimate gatherings underscore the central conflicts: the pain of familial breakdown, Howie's internal turmoil over , and his of budding relationships, all captured in subtle, everyday interactions that mark his path toward emotional maturity.

Cast

The principal cast of All These Small Moments includes Brendan Meyer as Howie Sheffield, the film's teenage protagonist navigating adolescence amid family tensions. Meyer, an up-and-coming actor known for his role in The OA (2016–2019), leads the ensemble in this coming-of-age story. Molly Ringwald portrays Carla Sheffield, Howie's mother, in a role described as distinct from her previous teen-centric characters, emphasizing a more mature parental perspective within the family's strained dynamics. Brian d'Arcy James plays Tom Sheffield, Howie's father, contributing to the depiction of marital discord that influences the household. James, a Tony-nominated Broadway performer, brings depth to the paternal figure. Sam McCarthy stars as Simon Sheffield, Howie's younger brother, highlighting sibling interactions amid the family's challenges. This marks one of McCarthy's early appearances following television work. Harley Quinn Smith appears as Lindsay, Howie's beguiling classmate and tentative peer friend who enters his social circle at school. Smith's performance represents a step outside her father's films, showcasing her as an emerging talent. Jemima Kirke plays Odessa, the enigmatic older woman who becomes the object of Howie's infatuation during his daily bus rides. Kirke, recognized from Girls (2012–2017), embodies the allure that complicates Howie's emotional world.

Production

Development

All These Small Moments marks the feature film debut of writer-director Melissa Miller Costanzo, who entered the film industry through entry-level positions such as receptionist at 3 Arts Entertainment and assistant at Julia Roberts' production company Shoelace before advancing to roles like personal assistant to James Gandolfini and art department work on series including The Affair. Her prior experience in production honed her visual storytelling approach, which she applied to this project as her first solo screenplay. The film's concept draws from semi-autobiographical elements rooted in Costanzo's observations of family dynamics and adolescent emotions, inspired in part by a image of symbolizing untapped potential that her husband gifted her from The . Written in a stream-of-consciousness style without an outline, the script captures fleeting daily interactions, such as a teenager's sparked by bus commuters, reflecting Costanzo's personal experiences with emotional connections amid routine life. Costanzo developed the while working on The Affair, pitching it to showrunner , which led to agent representation and accelerated momentum. Pre-production began after the script's completion around 2016, with Costanzo securing producers Lauren Avinoam, Katie Leary, and Jed Mellick through her agent's outreach to ready projects. The production involved companies including Jemstone Productions (formerly Moving Pictures Artists), Big Vision Creative, and Vineyard Point Productions, aligning with the film's indie scale and estimated low budget typical of debut features without major studio backing. Casting emphasized authentic portrayals, notably selecting for the maternal role to evoke nuanced family tensions.

Filming

Principal photography for All These Small Moments commenced in March 2017 and lasted 18 days, primarily in , . The production utilized authentic locations to evoke the everyday authenticity of a , including urban bus routes for key scenes, a as the family home, and settings to ground the adolescent narrative. Cinematographer Adam Bricker employed an intimate style with fragmented shots, often placing the camera between characters to heighten emotional closeness, drawing inspiration from the ' approach while incorporating natural sunlight motifs to underscore themes of . This technique contributed to the film's concise 84-minute runtime, achieved through rigorous pre-planning and on-set efficiency despite the non-chronological shooting order. As an independent production, the shoot faced several logistical hurdles, including a Nor'easter blizzard that disrupted the intended spring setting, necessitating script adjustments like added snow references and fake snow applications to maintain seasonal continuity. Working with young actors, such as 14-year-old Sam McCarthy, imposed strict hourly limits on minors, complicating the already compressed schedule and requiring the casting of performers over 18 like where possible. Indie budget constraints further limited crew size and scouting time, with locations sometimes finalized during and shot lists adapted collaboratively to accommodate improvisations.

Release

Premiere

All These Small Moments had its world premiere on April 24, 2018, at the Tribeca Film Festival in . The screening took place at the SVA Theatre, marking the debut of director Melissa Miller Costanzo's . The premiere event featured attendance from key cast members, including , who portrayed the protagonist's mother, and Sam McCarthy, son of Ringwald's co-star . A post-screening Q&A session included director Costanzo and actor , allowing audiences to engage directly with the filmmakers on the film's themes of family and . Following the Tribeca premiere, the film had additional screenings at indie festivals in 2018, including the , where it continued to build early buzz among festival-goers. Early audience reactions at these events highlighted the film's intimate portrayal of everyday family tensions, with viewers appreciating its authentic depiction of coming-of-age struggles in a setting. The positive festival exposure led to a distribution deal announcement on October 18, 2018, when acquired North American and Latin American rights.

Distribution

Following its premiere at the , All These Small Moments was acquired by for North American and Latin American distribution rights on October 18, 2018. The film received a in the United States on January 17, 2019, screening in select theaters. It became available for (VOD) and digital HD purchase or rental the following day, January 18, 2019. Post-theatrical distribution emphasized digital platforms, with the film made available for streaming and purchase on services such as and . As an independent production, its release strategy prioritized targeted U.S. accessibility over broad theatrical runs, reflecting the scale of its distributor. International distribution remained limited, confined primarily to and select Latin American markets under the Orion Classics agreement, with no major expansions reported elsewhere.

Reception

Critical response

All These Small Moments received generally positive reviews from critics, though with some mixed assessments of its execution. On , the film holds an 88% approval rating based on 17 reviews. On , it has a score of 60 out of 100, based on 7 critic reviews, indicating mixed or average reception. Critics frequently praised the film's strong performances, particularly Brendan Meyer's portrayal of the Howie, described as amiable and a driving force that captures youthful confusion with endearing effect. Molly Ringwald's subtle depiction of the mother Carla was highlighted for its nuance and heartfelt dialogue, marking a fresh role for the actress. Reviewers also commended the sensitive handling of coming-of-age themes, including family dissolution and adolescent , noting the film's uncommon in exploring timeless emotional struggles. However, some criticisms focused on the simplistic narrative structure, which some felt was back-loaded and occasionally too restrained. Supporting characters were often seen as underdeveloped, with fine actors like Ringwald and underutilized, leading to a lack of personality in the ensemble. The film's occasional twee tone was another point of contention, with elements like tearful scenes and last-minute described as treacly and amateurish. In a review for , Courtney Howard praised the film's Brooklyn authenticity, calling it a "sweet, subtle, and sentimental work" that wins over with quiet refinement and heartrending insight into everyday life. Andrew Lapin of noted the film's observations of domestic struggles, such as the slow breakup of a marriage, but critiqued its earnestness as feeling like "twee grows in Brooklyn," with slight fragments that lack deeper conflict. Thematically, the film employs its title's "small moments"—such as daily bus rides or family interactions—to depict emotional growth, drawing viewers into seemingly insignificant events that signify broader and for its characters. This approach, supported by fluid camerawork, emphasizes how mundane details define and familial bonds, though it sometimes prioritizes intimacy over dramatic momentum.

Audience reception

All These Small Moments garnered mixed responses from audiences, reflected in its user ratings across major platforms. On , the film holds a 5.7/10 rating based on 10,807 user votes (as of November 2025), indicating a generally reception among viewers. Similarly, users rated it 3.1 out of 5 from 602 ratings, with many appreciating its intimate portrayal of everyday life but noting structural shortcomings. The audience score stands at 67%, aligning somewhat with these metrics and suggesting a divide between those who connected with its character-driven narrative and others who found it unengaging. Viewers frequently praised the film's relatable depiction of teenage experiences and family dynamics, highlighting the strong chemistry among the , particularly in scenes capturing awkward and parental tensions. Fans of indie dramas often commended the authentic performances, especially from as the protagonist navigating his first crush and in a supporting role, for bringing emotional depth to the story's small-scale moments. However, common criticisms centered on pacing issues that made the narrative feel disjointed, as well as a perceived lack of resolution in the family arcs involving divorce and separation, leaving some audiences frustrated by unresolved emotional threads. The film had a on January 17, 2019, followed by availability on (VOD) and digital platforms the next day, which helped sustain viewer interest beyond cinemas despite its niche appeal. In discussions within indie cinema circles, All These Small Moments has been recognized for its representation of and in 2010s American independent films, contributing to conversations about nuanced portrayals of transitions and familial disruption in low-budget storytelling. While no major post-release streaming spikes were reported, its ongoing presence on VOD services has allowed it to reach a dedicated interested in character-focused dramas.

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