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Henny Backus

Henny Backus (March 21, 1911 – December 9, 2004) was an American actress, author, and former , best known for her marriage to comedian and their collaborative humorous books about life. Born Henrietta Kaye in , , she pursued a career in theater from a young age, debuting as a in revues during the and . Her stage work included appearances in Earl Carroll's Vanities and the 1936 production Horse Eats Hat directed by . Backus transitioned to film and television after moving to , where she met and married in 1943. Notable screen roles included the "Bossy Wife" in the 1956 musical and a role as the Chief's wife (Native Mother) in the episode "Gilligan's Mother-in-Law", which starred her husband as . She gained further recognition for portraying Cora Dithers opposite Jim's Mr. Dithers in the 1968 CBS sitcom , based on the classic . During the , she also performed with a Works Progress Administration theater troupe alongside Welles, , and . In addition to acting, Backus co-authored several best-selling books with her husband, including What Are You Doing After the Orgy? (1962), Only When I Laugh (1965), Backus Strikes Back (1984), and Forgive Us Our Digressions (1988), which offered witty anecdotes from their entertainment industry experiences. Following Jim's death from in 1989 after battling , she wrote Care for the Caretaker: A Wife's Guide for Someone Caring for a Seriously Ill Loved One (1999), drawing from her personal caregiving journey. Backus passed away in at age 93 after suffering strokes.

Early Life

Birth and Family

Henrietta Katz (later known professionally as Henrietta Kaye and then Henny Backus) was born on March 21, 1911, in , . Her family relocated to , , by 1920. She was the daughter of Emanuel "Michael" Katz, a born around 1882, and Rose "Rosie" Korostoff Katz, born around 1889, both of whom were part of a Jewish immigrant family from . Backus had two siblings: a sister, Florence Gittleman, who resided in , and a brother, Irving A. Kaye, who lived in . The family resided in during her early years, as recorded in the 1920 U.S. Census, where they lived in a household that reflected typical working-class immigrant life in the city. Little is publicly documented about specific family influences on Backus's early artistic interests, though her eventual pursuit of began to take shape in her youth amid the cultural environment of early 20th-century .

Education and Initial Interests

After completing high school in , where her family was based, Henny Backus relocated to in pursuit of artistic training. She enrolled at the for the Advancement of Science and Art, studying and creating pieces that sold successfully in galleries. Though accomplished in , Backus gravitated toward the , finding theater more compelling than ; this preference led her to pursue initial opportunities in theater.

Career

Stage Performances

Henny Backus, known professionally as Henrietta Kaye during her early career, began her stage work in the 1930s as a in revues, including appearances in Earl Carroll's Vanities, a popular series of musical spectacles known for their elaborate costumes and chorus lines. Her first credited role came in the short-lived play Chrysalis, which opened on November 15, 1932, at the Martin Beck Theatre and ran for only eight performances before closing. In this comedy by Anthony Abbott and Dan Totheroh, Kaye portrayed Bee, a in a story centered on romantic entanglements among young professionals. Kaye gained further experience through involvement with the Works Progress Administration's , a initiative that provided employment for theater artists during the and produced innovative, accessible works across the . One notable credit from this period was her appearance as in Orson Welles's production of Horse Eats Hat, a surrealistic adapted from a play by Eugène Labiche and Marc-Michel. Staged at Maxine Elliott's Theatre as part of Project 891 under Welles's direction, the production ran for 66 performances and featured a cast of over 80 performers in a chaotic comedy about a man whose hat is eaten by a stray horse, blending with experimental staging. She also appeared in Arthur Kober's comedy Having Wonderful Time, which premiered on February 20, 1937, at the Lyceum Theatre and enjoyed a successful run of 372 performances. Produced by the Group Theatre but aligned with the era's federally supported theater efforts, the play depicted life at a Catskills summer resort, with Kaye in the role of Maxine, a wisecracking camp counselor.

Film and Television Roles

Henny Backus first appeared in films in uncredited roles during the early 1950s, including as a nurse in Skirts Ahoy! (1952) and as Miss Brady in Blackboard Jungle (1955). She received her first credited film role as the "Bossy Wife" in the musical comedy Meet Me in Las Vegas (1956) alongside stars like Dan Dailey and Cyd Charisse. The film, directed by Vincente Minnelli, featured Backus in a brief but memorable comedic bit that highlighted her knack for sharp, domestic humor. In television, Backus achieved greater prominence with her co-starring role as Cora Dithers (also credited as Mrs. Dithers), the wife of Dagwood Bumstead's boss, in the short-lived sitcom (1968–1969). Starring opposite her real-life husband , who played Mr. Dithers, the series adapted the classic and aired for one season on , allowing the couple to showcase their on-screen chemistry in family-oriented scenarios. One of her notable guest appearances came on in the 1965 episode "Gilligan's Mother-in-Law," where she played the Native Mother opposite her husband as . This color episode from the show's second season involved comedic island antics with a native tribe, providing Backus with a playful supporting part that complemented the series' ensemble dynamic. Backus continued her film work with the role of Mrs. Webster in the family adventure (1969), directed by Jack Arnold and starring and . In this underwater-themed comedy, she appeared as a supportive neighbor character amid the story of a family testing an experimental ocean habitat. Throughout the and into the early , Backus made additional guest spots on popular television shows, including an appearance as Mrs. Landers on in the 1981 episode "The Incredible Hunk/Isaac, the Marriage Counselor/Jewels & Jim," again sharing the screen with her husband . She also had minor roles in episodes of series like Emergency! (1972) as Ginger Merkl, contributing to her reputation for versatile character work in episodic television.

Writing Contributions

Henny Backus co-authored several humorous memoirs with her husband, , that chronicled their life together with wit and candor. Their first joint publication, What Are You Doing After the Orgy? (1962), offered lighthearted anecdotes from their early marriage and experiences in the entertainment industry. This was followed by Only When I Laugh (1965), which expanded on their comedic observations of Hollywood's eccentricities and marital dynamics. The couple continued their collaborative writing later in their careers with Backus Strikes Back (1984) and Forgive Us Our Digressions (1988), both of which maintained the playful tone while reflecting on decades of shared adventures, industry insider stories, and the ups and downs of their 46-year marriage. These works emphasized themes of through humor, portraying life as a blend of and , often drawing from Jim Backus's roles in film and television to illustrate personal and professional intersections. In addition to her co-authored books, Backus published her solo work Care for the Caretaker: How Jim Backus' Wife Did It (1999), an uplifting guide informed by her decade-long experience supporting Jim through his Parkinson's disease. Drawing on practical lessons from their home life, the book provides compassionate advice for caregivers, blending personal stories with actionable strategies to maintain emotional well-being amid challenges. Backus's approach in this publication retained the witty voice of her earlier collaborations, transforming adversity into an accessible resource for others in similar situations.

Personal Life

Marriages and Relationships

Henny Backus, born Henrietta Kaye, entered her first marriage to Nat Karson, a prominent set and , on January 26, 1936, in . The marriage ended in divorce sometime before 1943. In 1943, Backus married actor and comedian in a dual ceremony in and , marking the beginning of a 46-year partnership that endured until his death in 1989. The couple had no children from this or her previous marriage. They occasionally appeared together in television roles, such as in the sitcom , blending their personal and professional lives. Described as a "leggy redhead with a droll sense of humor," Backus's vibrant personality shaped her public image and complemented 's comedic style, enhancing their joint appeal in entertainment circles.

Later Years and Caregiving

In November 1978, was diagnosed with , marking the beginning of a decade-long decline that required intensive care from his wife, Henny Backus. As his primary , she managed daily challenges such as muscle rigidity and issues, often adapting their routines at their longtime residence to accommodate his needs while maintaining a sense of normalcy and humor in their shared life. Henny Backus provided unwavering support through Jim's worsening symptoms, including assistance with meals, mobility, and public outings where his condition drew attention, all while prioritizing his dignity and their emotional bond. She drew on practical strategies like home modifications and external support networks to sustain caregiving without , a role she fulfilled until his death from complications on July 3, 1989. Following Jim's passing, Henny Backus remained in their home, where she completed her 1999 book Care for the Caretaker: How Jim Backus' Wife Did It: An Upbeat Guide for Those Who Care for Others, a guide offering insights into the emotional and physical demands of her experiences. In this work and her personal accounts, she reflected on the profound of widowhood after nearly 46 years of , emphasizing amid and the lingering impact of caregiving.

Death

Final Years and Passing

Henny Backus died on December 9, 2004, at UCLA Medical Center in , , at the age of 93. The cause of her death was complications arising from a series of strokes. Backus outlived her husband, who died in 1989, by 15 years.

Burial and Survivors

Henny Backus was interred at Westwood Village Memorial Park Cemetery in , , alongside her husband, . At the time of her death, Backus was survived by her sister, Florence Gittleman of , , and her brother, Irving A. Kaye of , as well as three nieces. She and had no children.

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