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Lorinda de Roulet

Lorinda de Roulet (May 8, 1930 – October 26, 2025) was an philanthropist, businesswoman, and who served as the of the franchise from 1975 to 1978 and chairwoman from 1978 to 1980, becoming the first woman to oversee day-to-day operations of a major league team in 1978. Born Lorinda Payson in to Joan Whitney Payson, the Mets' founding owner, and financier Charles Shipman Payson, she inherited a legacy in sports, art, and philanthropy, later founding the Patrina Foundation to empower women and girls through grassroots initiatives. De Roulet assumed leadership of the Mets following her mother's death in 1975, initially as president; in late 1978, she succeeded M. Donald Grant as chairwoman, taking full operational control and guiding the team through a challenging period that included last-place finishes in 1977 and 1979 before the franchise was sold to Doubleday & Company in 1980 for $21.1 million. Her tenure marked a pivotal transition for the organization amid financial and competitive struggles. Educated at the Ethel Walker School (class of 1947) and attending Wellesley College for three years, de Roulet married Vincent de Roulet, a real estate developer, in 1951; he predeceased her in 1975, leaving three children: Whitney Bullock, Sandra de Roulet, and Daniel de Roulet. Beyond , de Roulet was a prominent philanthropist, establishing the Lorinda and Vincent de Roulet Professor of Medicine at (now part of ) in the to advance cardiac care and research, and serving as president of the hospital's board as well as a life trustee. Her family had deep ties to healthcare, with her mother co-founding the hospital in 1954, and her son Daniel later becoming a board chairman. De Roulet also held board positions at and the Nassau County Museum of Art, and in 1989, she sold Pablo Picasso's painting Au Lapin Agile—inherited from her family—for a then-record $40.7 million at . An avid equestrian, she supported educational institutions like her Ethel Walker School, where an outdoor show ring was dedicated in her name in 2022 for her generous contributions. De Roulet passed away in , at age 95, survived by her children, five grandchildren, and ten great-grandchildren.

Early life

Birth and family background

Lorinda de Roulet, née Payson, was born on May 8, 1930, in , , to and . Her mother, Joan, was a prominent heiress and businesswoman from the influential , whose fortune stemmed from 19th-century industrialist William C. Whitney's ventures in streetcars, shipping, and tobacco. Joan inherited millions from her parents, Payne Whitney and ; her father had previously received a large inheritance from his uncle, Colonel Oliver Payne, in 1917, which augmented the family wealth. She further augmented her fortune through personal investments and business dealings, including rights to the film adaptation of . Her father, , was a graduate who built a successful career as a financier and industrialist, becoming one of the nation's wealthiest individuals. A dedicated sportsman, he shared his enthusiasm for athletics with the family, contributing to an upbringing immersed in competitive pursuits. The Paysons' substantial wealth afforded a privileged environment across their estates in , , and , where Lorinda, the third of five children—including siblings Daniel (who died in ), Sandra, Payne, and John—experienced early exposure to the arts through her mother's renowned collection of Impressionist and Post-Impressionist works by artists such as Picasso and Cézanne. As one of the four surviving children in a family marked by prominence and innovation, Lorinda benefited from her mother's trailblazing example as a female entrepreneur; Joan became the first woman to own a major league baseball team without inheriting it, co-founding the in 1961 and serving as its principal owner. This dynamic household, blending cultural patronage with sporting passion, shaped her foundational interests in and from childhood.

Education

Lorinda de Roulet received her early education at the Greenvale School, a private preparatory institution in , where she attended through her formative years. She then graduated from The Ethel Walker School, an elite all-girls boarding school in , in 1947. As an alumna, de Roulet maintained strong ties to the institution, later serving as a and contributing to its legacy of empowering young women through rigorous academic and leadership training. Following high school, de Roulet enrolled at , a prestigious women's in , where she studied for three years but did not complete her degree. She left in 1950 to prepare for her marriage the following year. Her education at these institutions, known for their focus on intellectual development and preparing women for influential roles in society, reflected a family emphasis on elite women's schooling that fostered her subsequent engagement in cultural and civic spheres.

Career

Presidency of the New York Mets

Lorinda de Roulet was appointed president of the on December 6, 1975, following the death of her mother, , the team's founder and original owner, on October 4, 1975. As the daughter of Payson, de Roulet inherited a significant stake in the franchise and assumed leadership to oversee its operations during a transitional period. Her appointment marked her as the first woman to hold such a position in , directing the day-to-day affairs of a team in a male-dominated industry. During her tenure from 1975 to 1980, de Roulet navigated the Mets through a challenging era of on-field struggles and organizational upheaval. The team finished last in the in both 1977 and 1978, compiling records of 64-98 and 66-96, respectively, amid fan discontent following the controversial 1977 trade of star pitcher to the —a decision made under her predecessor M. Donald . In late 1978, de Roulet elevated herself to chairwoman of the board by ousting , whose tenure had drawn widespread criticism for poor management, allowing her to take a more hands-on role in operations. Under manager , hired in 1977, the Mets continued to falter, losing 99 games in 1979 and finishing sixth in the division, reflecting broader financial strains and a need for roster rebuilding. De Roulet focused on stabilizing the franchise, including efforts to address attendance declines and maintain competitiveness despite limited resources. De Roulet's leadership broke significant gender barriers in MLB, as she became the to oversee the daily operations of a major league team, setting a for female executives in . Despite the era's entrenched male leadership, she managed interactions with players, staff, and league officials, contributing to the Mets' survival during lean years without detailed public accounts of specific adversities she faced. Her tenure concluded in 1980 when the team was sold to Doubleday & Company and minority owner , who succeeded her as the operational head, ending the Payson family's direct control of the franchise. This period underscored her role in preserving the organization's stability amid performance woes, paving the way for future ownership transitions.

Other professional roles

Following her tenure with the New York Mets, Lorinda de Roulet transitioned into leadership roles in healthcare and cultural institutions, leveraging her organizational expertise in nonprofit governance. De Roulet served on the board of governors of New York Hospital, which later merged into NewYork-Presbyterian Hospital in 1998, where she continued as a board member. She also held significant positions at North Shore University Hospital, now part of Northwell Health, joining the board in 1979 and later becoming vice chairman of the board of trustees. In 2004, she was appointed chairman of the board, succeeding Roy Zuckerberg, and at various points acted as president of the hospital, contributing to its growth in cardiac care and research initiatives. Her involvement emphasized strategic oversight and family-rooted commitment to advancing medical services on Long Island. In the arts sector, drew on her family's extensive art collections—stemming from her mother Joan Whitney Payson's legacy as a prominent collector—to take on advisory and board roles. She served on the board of the Nassau County Museum of Art, where her personal holdings informed institutional decisions on exhibitions and acquisitions in the late and beyond. Additionally, she was a member of the Board of Advisors for the Tilles Center for the from 1986 to 2022, supporting programming that bridged and performance. Post-1989, de Roulet expanded into advisory roles by founding Shelter Rock Investors, a focused on investments in metals and other sectors, marking her shift toward entrepreneurial leadership outside sports. This venture highlighted her acumen in financial strategy and organizational management.

Personal life

Marriage and children

In 1951, Lorinda Payson married Vincent William de Roulet, a businessman who owned the de Roulet Company and later served as the Ambassador to from 1969 to 1973. The wedding took place at the Payson family estate in , where the couple established their primary residence and raised their family in a prominent community known for its affluent estates. The de Roulets had three children: daughters , born around 1952, and , born around 1955, and son , born around 1954. , the eldest, married Clark Lewis Bullock in 1978 at the family in Manhasset. , the youngest daughter, grew up alongside her siblings in the family's Manhasset household, where the children were involved in activities reflective of their mother's upbringing. , the middle child, also resided at with his into his early adulthood. Vincent de Roulet died suddenly of a heart attack in August 1975 at age 49 while vacationing in Falmouth Foreside, , leaving Lorinda to raise the children as a . The family continued to maintain their Manhasset residence, which served as a stable base amid the transitions following his death.

Philanthropic activities

Lorinda de Roulet founded the Patrina Foundation in 1990, utilizing proceeds from the sale of a family-owned Picasso to establish an dedicated to supporting girls and women in through education and . The foundation provides grants to in-community organizations, focusing on initiatives such as job training programs, educational opportunities for inner-city women, and efforts to empower women to pursue their aspirations. In the field of healthcare, de Roulet established the Lorinda and Vincent de Roulet Professor of Medicine at , aimed at advancing cardiac care and research to sustain high standards in medical treatment. She also demonstrated a commitment to by making a major lead gift in 2022 that resulted in the naming of the Lorinda Payson de Roulet '47 Show Ring at her , The Ethel Walker School, enhancing the institution's facilities. De Roulet contributed to philanthropy through the sale of personal artwork from family collections, notably auctioning Pablo Picasso's Au Lapin Agile in 1989 for $40.7 million, with a portion of the proceeds directed to charitable causes including the founding of the Patrina Foundation. Her long-term involvement in philanthropic leadership included serving on the board of (now part of ) since 1979 and assuming the role of chairman in 2004, where she guided community health initiatives and fundraising efforts.

Death and legacy

Death

Lorinda de Roulet died on October 26, 2025, at her home in , at the age of 95. Her daughter, Whitney Bullock, confirmed the death to . The cause of death was not publicly disclosed by the family or associated organizations. A private family service was held following her passing. De Roulet was survived by her three children, five grandchildren, and ten great-grandchildren. The organization issued a statement expressing condolences, noting her role as the daughter of founder and her contributions during her tenure as president from 1975 to 1980. , where she had been a dedicated benefactor for over 60 years and a Life since 2013, mourned her loss in an official announcement, describing her as a dedicated benefactor. Similarly, expressed deep sadness over the passing of their Life and friend.

Legacy

Lorinda de Roulet is widely recognized as a trailblazer for women in , having become the first woman to oversee the day-to-day operations of an MLB team during her tenure as president and chair of the New York Mets board from 1975 to 1980. Her leadership role broke significant gender barriers in a male-dominated industry, paving the way for future female executives in sports management, as noted in reflections on her historic position following her mother's ownership legacy. De Roulet's philanthropic efforts have left a lasting imprint on healthcare and , particularly through endowments that support ongoing and academic excellence. She established the Lorinda and Vincent de Roulet Professor of Medicine at , dedicated to advancing cardiac care and research, ensuring sustained innovation in these fields long after her involvement. Her founding of the Patrina Foundation further extended her commitment to community welfare, influencing initiatives in and that continue to benefit institutions. Following her death on October 26, 2025, tributes highlighted de Roulet's enduring influence as a community leader and . The organization issued a statement expressing condolences to her family, acknowledging her pivotal roles as team president and board chair. Northwell Health's staff and trustees mourned her as a dedicated life trustee and benefactor whose contributions shaped their mission. Sports media outlets, including Sports Business Journal, portrayed her as a pioneer whose barrier-breaking leadership and charitable legacy reinforced her family's tradition of impact in arts, sports, and .

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