Ruston Kelly
Ruston Samuel Kelly (born July 31, 1988) is an American singer-songwriter and multi-instrumentalist based in Nashville, Tennessee, renowned for his introspective work in Americana, singer-songwriter, and contemporary country genres.[1][2][3] Born in Georgetown, South Carolina, Kelly was raised in several locations including Wyoming, Ohio, due to his family's frequent relocations for his father's job; he began playing guitar under the guidance of his father, Tim "TK" Kelly, a pedal steel guitarist who later joined his band and whose debut album Kelly produced in 2021.[4][5] His music often explores themes of addiction, heartbreak, and personal redemption, drawing from his own experiences with substance abuse and a high-profile divorce.[5][6] Kelly first gained recognition as a Nashville songwriter after signing with BMG Nashville in 2013, penning tracks for prominent artists such as Tim McGraw—including the single "Nashville Without You" from McGraw's 2013 album Two Lanes of Freedom—as well as songs for the Josh Abbott Band, Rob Baird, Hayes Carll, and Lucie Silvas.[6][7] He transitioned to a performing artist in the late 2010s, releasing his debut solo album Dying Star in 2018 on Rounder Records, which candidly addressed his struggles with drug addiction and received critical acclaim for its raw emotional depth.[2][6] Subsequent releases include Shape & Destroy (2020), The Weakness (2023, produced by Nate Mercereau), and Pale, Through the Window (2025), each showcasing his evolving sound blending moody introspection with expansive production.[8][9][10] In his personal life, Kelly married country star Kacey Musgraves on October 14, 2017, in a ceremony in Tennessee, but the couple announced their separation in July 2020 and finalized their divorce in September of that year, with themes of the split influencing his later songwriting.[11][12] Following a period of recovery and self-reflection, including sobriety and relocation to Portland, Tennessee, Kelly has continued to tour extensively and collaborate, establishing himself as a vital voice in modern Americana through his unflinching self-examination and transcendent storytelling.[5][13][14]Early life
Family background
Ruston Kelly was born on July 31, 1988, in Georgetown, South Carolina.[7][15] He is the youngest of three siblings and was raised by his parents, Sherri and Tim Kelly.[5][13] Kelly's family relocated frequently during his childhood due to his father's career as an executive at a paper mill, which involved job changes across various locations.[5][4] The family settled in Wyoming, Ohio, a suburb of Cincinnati, from Kelly's fifth grade through his junior year of high school.[13] These moves included stints in Alabama and Belgium, where the family lived during his senior year of high school.[16][17][12] Tim Kelly, a former pedal steel guitarist, contributed to the family's musical atmosphere by performing and singing for them at home, influencing Ruston's early exposure to music.[18][17] Despite pursuing a stable career in the paper industry, Tim's background as a performer who had opened for artists like Roy Orbison left a lasting imprint on the household.[18]Youth and musical beginnings
Ruston Kelly began competitive figure skating around the age of eight or nine, inspired by his older sister, and quickly advanced to an elite level, qualifying for the Junior Olympics three times before the age of ten.[12] The demanding, solitary nature of the sport's training regimen created periods of isolation for Kelly during his childhood, ultimately channeling his introspective energy toward songwriting as a personal outlet.[19] Growing up in a musical family—his father, Tim Kelly, a songwriter—Kelly was exposed to live performances and songcraft from an early age, which sparked his initial interest in music despite his primary focus on skating.[18] Kelly's family relocated frequently due to his father's career, instilling a persistent sense of rootlessness that influenced his early creative expressions.[13] He first experimented with songwriting as a teenager in Michigan, drawing from raw personal emotions to craft simple tunes on guitar.[17] This hobby deepened during his senior year of high school, when the family made its final move to Brussels, Belgium; amid the cultural dislocation, Kelly honed his lyrical voice, using songwriting to process feelings of displacement and identity.[17] He graduated from high school in Belgium in 2006 before returning to the United States.[13] Upon his return, Kelly briefly enrolled at a community college in the U.S., but he frequently skipped classes and soon dropped out after one semester, feeling unmotivated by traditional education.[13] Throughout these formative years, songwriting remained a private refuge, rooted in the emotional turbulence of adolescence and the melodic traditions of his family's musical heritage, setting the stage for his later artistic pursuits.[20]Career
Early career in Nashville
At age 18, Ruston Kelly relocated to Nashville in 2006 to pursue a career in music, initially visiting his sister who had already moved there and deciding to stay.[19][21] This move marked a pivotal shift from his earlier years, where he had begun writing songs during his time as a competitive figure skater.[20] Upon arriving, Kelly quickly immersed himself in the local music scene by forming an early bluegrass band called Bloodbath and Beyond, though it was short-lived.[22] He soon joined Elmwood, a jam band inspired by the Dave Matthews Band, which coalesced in Nashville in 2008 and was named after a local street.[23][13] With Elmwood, Kelly began touring extensively as a performer from 2008 to 2011, including a notable performance at the Bonnaroo Music Festival that caught the attention of music executives.[23][21][24] Kelly honed his songwriting skills through self-taught efforts and participation in Nashville's vibrant local scenes, performing in informal settings and collaborating with emerging musicians.[19] These experiences helped him refine his craft amid the city's competitive environment, where he navigated entry into the broader music community by building connections through band performances and open mics.[25][13] His early years in Nashville were marked by significant struggles, including unstable living situations as he initially stayed with his sister and faced financial hardships common to aspiring artists in the city.[19][22] Despite these challenges, Kelly persisted by leveraging the supportive yet demanding Nashville ecosystem, gradually establishing himself through relentless gigging and networking in dive bars and local venues.[25][23]Songwriting breakthrough
In 2013, Ruston Kelly signed a publishing deal with BMG Nashville, marking a pivotal moment in his transition to professional songwriting.[19] This agreement provided him with the platform to hone his craft alongside established writers in the Nashville scene.[26] One of Kelly's earliest breakthroughs came the same year with his co-written track "Nashville Without You," which appeared on Tim McGraw's album Two Lanes of Freedom.[27] The following year, 2014, saw another significant placement when Kelly co-wrote "Tuesday Night" for the Josh Abbott Band's EP of the same name, further solidifying his emerging presence in country music.[17] These cuts demonstrated his ability to craft emotionally resonant songs tailored to major artists, drawing attention from the Nashville industry. Through these initial successes, Kelly built a reputation as a versatile songwriter capable of blending introspective lyrics with country and Americana elements.[28] Additional early contributions, such as songs for Rob Baird and Hayes Carll, underscored his growing demand and shifted his focus from performing in local bands to becoming a sought-after collaborator in the genre.[6] By the mid-2010s, this momentum had positioned Kelly as a key figure in Nashville's songwriting community, paving the way for his own recording pursuits.Solo recording career
In 2018, Ruston Kelly signed with Rounder Records, marking his transition to a full-time solo artist following earlier songwriting successes that facilitated this pivot.[29] His debut studio album, Dying Star, was released on September 7, 2018, through the label.[30] Co-produced by Kelly and Jarrad K, who had previously collaborated with artists like Kate Nash and Weezer, the album featured contributions from Nashville musicians including singer-songwriter Natalie Hemby and Joy Williams of The Civil Wars.[30] It comprised 14 tracks spanning 53 minutes, building on the momentum from Kelly's 2017 EP Halloween, which was produced by Mike Mogis.[29] Kelly remained with Rounder Records for his sophomore album, Shape & Destroy, released on August 28, 2020.[31] The record, consisting of 13 songs over 41 minutes, was again co-produced by Kelly and Jarrad K and recorded at Dreamland Recording Studios in upstate New York.[32] This release represented a continuation of Kelly's collaborative production approach while expanding his solo catalog. On April 7, 2023, Kelly issued his third album, The Weakness, via Rounder Records.[33] Produced by Nate Mercereau, known for work with Sharon Van Etten and Leon Bridges, the album was produced by Nate Mercereau and recorded at his Studio Tujunga in Los Angeles, following Kelly's relocation from Nashville to Portland, Tennessee.[33][34] Kelly's fourth studio album, Pale, Through the Window, arrived on September 12, 2025, under Rounder Records.[35] Featuring 13 tracks across 48 minutes, the album was produced in a context of personal renewal, maintaining Kelly's affiliation with the label throughout his solo discography.[36]Personal life
Marriage and divorce
Ruston Kelly met Kacey Musgraves in March 2016 at a songwriters' showcase at Nashville's Bluebird Café, where Kelly performed and Musgraves was in attendance; the two began dating shortly thereafter through their shared connections in the local music scene.[37][38] They got engaged on Christmas Eve later that year, with Musgraves announcing the news on social media.[39] The couple married on October 14, 2017, in an intimate outdoor ceremony in Tennessee, attended by close friends and family from the music industry.[39][11] Their marriage faced challenges, including Kelly's brief relapse into addiction midway through their three-year union, which was part of his broader struggles with substance abuse.[5] In July 2020, after nearly three years of marriage, Musgraves filed for divorce citing irreconcilable differences, with the couple issuing a joint statement emphasizing mutual respect and no animosity.[40] The divorce was finalized in September 2020, with both parties agreeing on an amicable settlement that included no alimony and a clean division of assets.[41][42] The high-profile split drew significant media attention, fueled by the couple's earlier portrayal as a quintessential Nashville music power pair, leading to widespread speculation and scrutiny that they preemptively addressed in their announcement.[43][44] Kelly later revealed that he initiated the separation but quickly regretted it, attempting reconciliation through a grand gesture in the months following the filing, though the effort ultimately failed and contributed to emotional strain on his career during a period of personal turmoil.[45][12]Addiction and recovery
Kelly's struggles with addiction began during his early years establishing a career in Nashville, starting with prescription stimulants like Adderall before escalating to heavy alcohol use, cocaine, and opioids including heroin.[46][45] By 2011–2015, he was deeply immersed in substance abuse, experiencing multiple overdoses that culminated in a near-fatal incident in December 2015.[47][13] Following the 2015 overdose, Kelly entered rehab in North Carolina and achieved initial sobriety, maintaining it for several years through counseling and personal discipline, though he later noted that structured programs were not always a perfect fit for him.[23][13] He relapsed briefly in 2018–2019 amid personal stresses, including a single night of heavy substance use involving pills and alcohol, but recommitted to sobriety by late 2018, marking over two years clean by December 2020.[5][48] His recovery has relied on therapy, close support from family and friends, and self-managed routines like exercise and structured daily goals to sustain long-term sobriety.[23][5] The end of his marriage in 2020 acted as a pivotal catalyst, prompting deeper introspection and lifestyle shifts in his recovery process.[25] In 2022, seeking a quieter, substance-free setting away from Nashville's temptations, Kelly relocated to an old Victorian bungalow in Portland, Tennessee, where he spent months in intentional solitude to focus on healing and creative work.[49] By 2025, he had partially returned to Nashville while maintaining elements of his rural routine.[50] In recent years, Kelly has described a profound spiritual awakening, including an out-of-body experience involving an apparition of Jesus, which has reinforced his sobriety and shaped themes in his 2025 album.[51] This episode, occurring while he was already sober, underscored his ongoing commitment to personal growth beyond traditional recovery frameworks.[51] In October 2025, Kelly became engaged to his girlfriend Tia Cubelic, proposing to her backstage at the Grand Ole Opry.[52]Artistry
Musical style
Ruston Kelly's music fuses elements of Americana, folk, country, and indie rock into a distinctive sound he has coined "dirt emo," a term reflecting the gritty emotional depth of emo blended with rustic, roots-oriented traditions.[53][54][55] His arrangements center on acoustic guitar as the foundational instrument, creating an intimate, singer-songwriter core that occasionally incorporates electric elements, particularly in later releases where pop-punk riffs and stoner rock textures add propulsion and edge.[56][57][55] Kelly's production has evolved notably across his discography, beginning with the raw, unadorned intimacy of Dying Star (2018), where subtle dynamics and straightforward instrumentation prioritize emotional clarity and allow space for the material to unfold naturally.[58][59] In The Weakness (2023), this shifts to more layered and textured arrangements, with rougher edges and broader sonic scope that amplify folk and alt-country foundations through increased density and vitality.[60][61] His latest work, Pale, Through the Window (2025), further advances this progression with experimental sonic explorations, integrating diverse threads like pop-punk vigor and folk-rock expansiveness into a more spiritually grounded and multifaceted palette.[62][63] Kelly's vocal delivery remains a hallmark, characterized by an emotive, confessional intensity influenced by grunge rawness and alt-country expressiveness, often rendered with warm, unfiltered timbre that conveys vulnerability and power.[64][65][54]Themes and influences
Ruston Kelly's songwriting frequently explores themes of addiction, heartbreak, redemption, and spiritual searching, drawing from his own battles with substance abuse and emotional turmoil. His debut album Dying Star (2018) delves into the raw pain of recovery and loss, portraying addiction as a destructive force that reshapes identity. Similarly, Shape & Destroy (2020) captures the ongoing struggle of sobriety as a spiritual odyssey, emphasizing persistence amid vulnerability and self-doubt.[54] By 2025, these motifs evolve toward joy and transcendence in Pale, Through the Window, where Kelly reflects on renewal, love, and grace following periods of existential low, marking a shift from despair to hard-won optimism.[66] Personal experiences, particularly his divorce from Kacey Musgraves in 2020 and subsequent recovery journey, profoundly shape these themes, infusing his work with unflinching honesty. In Shape & Destroy, the album's vulnerability stems from navigating sobriety without the crutch of his past marriage, transforming private anguish into universal narratives of rebuilding.[67] Kelly has described this period as a constant process of "shaping and destroying" old selves to foster growth, directly mirroring his post-divorce healing.[25] Kelly's artistic influences include folk icons Bob Dylan and Neil Young, whose poetic lyricism and introspective storytelling inform his Americana roots, as well as contemporaries like Jason Isbell, whose raw emotional depth in sobriety-themed songs resonates with Kelly's own path. He has cited Dylan's The Times They Are a-Changin' as a pivotal influence, appreciating its social and personal urgency.[68] Collaborations, such as dueting "Big Brown Bus" with Isbell at the Ryman Auditorium in 2021, highlight their shared lineage in confessional songcraft.[69] Central to Kelly's oeuvre is an autobiographical songwriting approach that prioritizes poetic introspection and emotional authenticity, allowing listeners to connect through shared human frailty. He views his strength as conveying elusive feelings with precision, often drawing from lived events to craft narratives that feel both intimate and expansive.[60] This method, evident in tracks like "Mending Song" from The Weakness (2023), treats songwriting as a therapeutic excavation of the self.[70]Discography
Studio albums
Ruston Kelly's studio albums chronicle his evolution as a singer-songwriter, blending introspective folk-rock with confessional lyrics drawn from personal struggles and growth. His full-length releases, all issued through Rounder Records, emphasize raw emotional depth over commercial polish, earning acclaim for their vulnerability and sonic texture. His debut studio album, Dying Star, was released on September 7, 2018. Produced by Kelly alongside David Ferguson and Teddy Morgan, it features 14 tracks that explore themes of self-destruction and redemption, rooted in Kelly's experiences with addiction. The tracklist includes: "Cover My Tracks," "Mockingbird," "Son of a Highway Daughter," "Paratrooper's Battlecry," "Faceplant," "Blackout," "Big Brown Bus," "Mercury," "Asshole," "Dying Star," "Wildflowers," "Hoptown," "Turn to Stone," and "Jericho." Singles such as "Mockingbird" and "Jericho" highlighted the album's brooding intensity. Critically, it received positive reviews for its songwriting prowess, with American Songwriter awarding it 3.5 out of 5 stars and praising its narrative drive, while Entertainment Focus described it as a "powerful, complex" journey balancing light and dark elements. The album did not achieve major chart success but solidified Kelly's reputation in Americana circles.[71][72][73][74][16] Shape & Destroy, Kelly's sophomore effort, arrived on August 28, 2020. Co-produced by Kelly and Jarrad K, with recording by Gena Johnson, mixing by Jarrad K, and mastering by Greg Calbi, the album documents his sobriety journey amid personal turmoil. Key singles such as "Brave" and "In the Blue" previewed its themes of resilience and relapse. The 12-track lineup comprises: "In the Blue," "Radio Cloud," "Alive," "Changes," "Mid-Morning Lament," "Brave," "Clean," "Jubilee," "Closest Thing," "Rubber," "Pressure," and "Greenest Grass."[75][76][77] Reviewers noted its refined production and emotional rawness, with Country Universe calling it "compelling" in its lower-stakes introspection compared to his debut.[78] The third album, The Weakness, was released on April 7, 2023, following Kelly's relocation from Nashville to a Victorian bungalow in Portland, Tennessee, where he spent months in isolation to write and reflect. Produced by Nate Mercereau, it delves into post-divorce catharsis and human frailty through 11 tracks: "The Weakness," "Hellfire," "St. Jupiter," "Let Only Love Remain," "Michael Keaton," "Mending Song," "Dive," "Breakdown," "American Spirit," "Snowman," and "How Far Would You Go for Me."[79][80][49][81] The move to Portland provided the solitude needed for this "painfully candid but hopeful" work, as Kelly described it.[82] Kelly's fourth studio album, Pale, Through the Window, emerged on September 12, 2025, comprising 13 tracks that embrace spiritual awakening and joy after years of hardship. Influenced by a "psychedelic" encounter with faith, the album pairs personal lyricism with expansive arrangements, addressing doubt, hopelessness, and divine reconnection.[35][50][83] Standout track "Give Up the Ghost" confronts reflections on past ghosts—relationships, substances, or regrets—envisioned as light through a window. The full tracklist is: "Pale, Through the Window," "Give Up the Ghost," "Wayside," "Half Past Three," "Me and You," "Twisted Root," "Still," "Waiting to Love You," "The Weight," "Mockingbird," "Green Light," "Holy Water," and "Amen." Early reception highlights its radiant openness and return to Kelly's purest artistic self.[36]Extended plays
Ruston Kelly's extended plays represent key milestones in his career, beginning with early self-released efforts and evolving into more polished releases with major labels. His debut EP, The Bootleg Sessions, was released digitally in 2013 via NoiseTrade, showcasing raw, introspective songwriting from his formative years as a performer.[84] The seven-track collection captures Kelly's early Americana influences, with songs like "I Only Want You" and "Cardboard Crown" highlighting themes of longing and personal struggle, recorded in a lo-fi style that emphasized his guitar-driven folk sound.[85] Tracklist: 1. "I Only Want You"; 2. "Cardboard Crown"; 3. "Songbird"; 4. "The Wreckage"; 5. "She Only Wants Me When She's Stoned"; 6. "Jesus Christ"; 7. "Wishing You Could Be Free."[86] In 2017, Kelly signed with Washington Square and released Halloween, his first professionally produced EP, helmed by Mike Mogis of Bright Eyes fame. Issued on April 7, 2017, in digital, CD, and vinyl formats, the 10-track project blends haunting melodies with confessional lyrics, earning praise for its atmospheric production and emotional depth.[87] Standout tracks include "Black Magic" and "Hurricane In My Head," which explore addiction and inner turmoil, setting the stage for his full-length debut.[29] Tracklist: 1. "1814B 6th Ave N"; 2. "Black Magic"; 3. "(Lamenting a Heavy Pour)"; 4. "Hurricane In My Head"; 5. "1000 Graves"; 6. "Hollywood"; 7. "Wildflower"; 8. "How To Preserve The Life Of Death"; 9. "Poison"; 10. "Halloween (Downstairs)."[88] Kelly's 2019 EP Dirt Emo Vol. 1, released October 11 via Rounder Records in digital and vinyl formats, marked a playful departure, featuring covers of early-2000s emo and pop-punk anthems reimagined in his folk style. The eight-track set, including collaborations like "Screaming Infidelities" with Dashboard Confessional's Chris Carrabba, reflects Kelly's genre influences and live performance energy, with acoustic and live versions adding intimacy.[89] It served as a bridge between his sophomore album Shape & Destroy and future explorations of vulnerability. Tracklist: 1. "Screaming Infidelities" (feat. Chris Carrabba); 2. "Teenage Dirtbag (Live From Washington D.C. / 2019)"; 3. "At Your Funeral"; 4. "Dammit"; 5. "All Too Well"; 6. "Teenage Dirtbag (Acoustic)"; 7. "Weeping Willow"; 8. "Helena."[90] Most recently, Weakness, Etc., released March 22, 2024, via Rounder Records in digital format, acts as a companion to Kelly's 2023 album The Weakness. This seven-track EP mixes three original songs with alternate versions of album cuts, delving deeper into themes of recovery and resilience through stripped-down arrangements like piano and acoustic renditions.[91] Tracks such as "The Watcher" and "Belly Of The Beast" introduce new material, while reworks like "Hellfire (Acoustic)" provide fresh perspectives on familiar narratives. Tracklist: 1. "The Watcher"; 2. "Belly Of The Beast"; 3. "Heaven Made The Darkness"; 4. "Cold Black Mile (Hotel Version)"; 5. "Mending Song (Piano Version)"; 6. "Hellfire (Acoustic)"; 7. "Let Only Love Remain (Acoustic)."[92]Singles
Ruston Kelly's singles often serve as previews to his albums, blending introspective lyrics with alt-country and folk-rock elements, and have garnered attention through radio play and music videos. His early releases, such as the 2017 single "Black Magic," marked his emergence as a solo artist with a haunting take on toxic relationships, featured in a music video directed by Running Bear Films.[93] Prior to his 2018 debut album Dying Star, Kelly issued "Asshole (Demo)" as a raw, autobiographical track inspired by a night in jail, released via Rounder Records with an official audio premiere.[94] The album's lead singles included "Mockingbird," a heartfelt ode to a failing romance that peaked at No. 25 on the Adult Alternative Airplay chart and received a nomination for Song of the Year at the 2019 Americana Music Honors & Awards.[95][96] An official video, directed by Stephen Kinigopoulos and Alexa King, accompanied its July 2018 release.[97] In 2019, Kelly released the standalone single "Weeping Willow," a cover of the Carter Family classic recorded at their ancestral home in Virginia, highlighting his roots in Americana tradition through a stripped-down arrangement.[98] For his 2020 album Shape & Destroy, "Brave" debuted as the first single in April, addressing personal resilience with a music video released in June, followed by the lead track "In the Blue" in August, which explored themes of emotional turmoil.[76] Kelly's 2023 album The Weakness was promoted with "The Weakness" as the lead single in January, featuring a music video and a remix version with Samia, emphasizing recovery and vulnerability; it charted on Adult Alternative Airplay, peaking in the top 40.[99][100] In 2025, Kelly released the standalone single "Pickleball" in July, a pop-punk-infused track inspired by a pivotal first date, complete with an official music video. His album Pale, Through the Window was promoted with singles beginning with "Half Past Three" in May, a reflective piece on seeking solace amid chaos.[101] This was followed by "Wayside" in June, capturing a sense of displacement with an accompanying audio release.[102] The album's final pre-release single, "Waiting to Love You," dropped in August, offering an uplifting anthem of anticipation with a video directed by Kelly himself.[103][104]| Single | Year | Album | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Black Magic | 2017 | Standalone (from Halloween EP context) | Music video released June 20; themes of destructive love.[93] |
| Asshole (Demo) | 2018 | Dying Star | Autobiographical demo; official audio April 20.[94] |
| Mockingbird | 2018 | Dying Star | Peaked No. 25 Adult Alternative Airplay; music video July.[95][97] |
| Weeping Willow | 2019 | Standalone | Carter Family cover; released August 2.[98] |
| Brave | 2020 | Shape & Destroy | Lead single April 13; music video June 9. |
| In the Blue | 2020 | Shape & Destroy | Lead track August 28; themes of emotional depth.[76] |
| The Weakness | 2023 | The Weakness | Lead single January 17; music video; feat. Samia remix; top 40 Adult Alternative Airplay.[99][100] |
| Half Past Three | 2025 | Pale, Through the Window | First single May 2; search for peace in chaos.[101] |
| Wayside | 2025 | Pale, Through the Window | Second single June 6; audio release.[102] |
| Pickleball | 2025 | Standalone | Third single July 11; pop-punk style; music video.[105] |
| Waiting to Love You | 2025 | Pale, Through the Window | Final pre-release August 15; music video.[103] |