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If a Man Answers

If a Man Answers is a romantic comedy film directed by Henry Levin and starring and , who were married in real life at the time of production. The story centers on affluent Stacy (Dee), who weds aspiring photographer (Darin) and endeavors to train him as the perfect husband using guidance from her mother's book, resulting in a series of humorous entanglements involving jealousy, misunderstandings, and familial interventions. Adapted from the 1961 novel of the same name by Winifred Wolfe, the screenplay was penned by Richard Morris and produced by Ross Hunter under Ross Hunter Productions, with distribution handled by Universal-International Pictures. The film features a supporting cast including Stefanie Powers as Eugene's friend Tina, Micheline Presle as Chantal's mother, and Cesar Romero in a key role, and it runs for 102 minutes in Eastmancolor with mono sound. Released on October 10, 1962, in the United States, If a Man Answers is a lighthearted romantic comedy from the early 1960s.

Background and development

Source material

The novel If a Man Answers by Winifred Wolfe, published in by Doubleday & Co. in , serves as the primary source for the 1962 film adaptation. The 261-page book centers on Chantal Stacey, a 20-year-old who marries Eugene and navigates marital tensions exacerbated by his work with models, turning to her mother for guidance that draws humorous analogies from a dog-training manual to manage family dynamics and spousal relations. Wolfe, born in 1923 in , began her writing career in radio soap operas before becoming head writer for the television series in the , a background that shaped her light, engaging style blending romance with witty, serialized drama in novels about career women. Her experience contributed to the book's humorous tone, featuring aphorisms, double entendres, and Colette-like maternal wisdom amid comedic entanglements. Upon release, the was hailed as a diverting light romantic tale with elements of , though critiqued for occasional over-cuteness and heavy-handedness. Unlike , which incorporates a reveal for resolution and emphasizes visual , the book relies on internal monologues to convey Chantal's insights into marital advice and lacks such a , focusing instead on textual exploration of emotional and familial humor.

Pre-production

In 1961, producer Ross Hunter, through his Ross Hunter Productions at Universal-International, developed If a Man Answers as a romantic comedy. Hunter, known for his romantic comedies, saw potential in the story of marital misunderstandings as a lighthearted vehicle for emerging talent. Richard Morris wrote the . Morris's script retained the novel's core premise of a young wife's efforts to mold her husband while navigating interference from her overbearing mother but amplified the comedic elements, particularly the trope where the mother-in-law's secretive phone calls create jealousy and . Initial casting considerations included in the lead role of the socialite wife, as her meddlesome mother, and in a key supporting part as the New York artist husband. The project was announced in August as a , with plans for exterior shooting in starting mid-October to capture the story's urban setting. Planned as a mid-budget targeting a 102-minute , it aimed to showcase sophisticated humor for a broad audience.

Production

Casting

Sandra Dee was selected for the lead role of Chantal Stacy, capitalizing on her established wholesome, perky image from starring as the titular character in Gidget (1959). Her real-life marriage to co-star , which had become a point of fan interest since their 1960 wedding, generated substantial publicity for the film by mirroring the on-screen newlywed dynamic. Bobby Darin portrayed Gene Wright in their second on-screen pairing following (1961), a collaboration that built on their proven romantic chemistry. The role further integrated Darin's successful singing career, as he composed and performed songs including the title track and "A True, True Love" for the . The supporting cast featured as Germaine Stacy, Chantal's mother; as Robert Swan/Adam Wright; John Lund as John Stacy; and as Tina, Chantal's friend. Additional roles included as Miss Bullitt, contributing to the film's light comedic tone. Principal casting was completed by early 1962, prioritizing the natural rapport between Dee and Darin to enhance the romantic elements, with commencing on February 27, 1962, at Universal Studios.

Filming

for If a Man Answers took place in early 1962 at Universal Studios in , under the direction of Henry Levin, with shooting wrapping up by mid-year. The production utilized the studio's soundstages for interior scenes, while exterior shots were filmed in the surrounding area to represent the film's upscale social settings. Cinematographer captured the film in , emphasizing vibrant visuals that complemented the romantic comedy's tone. The musical score was composed by Hans J. Salter, incorporating the title song "If a Man Answers" written and performed by . As real-life spouses, stars and brought natural chemistry to their roles. Comedic sequences relied on the performers' timing to achieve their humorous effect. The final edit resulted in a 102-minute runtime, paced to sustain the film's light-hearted rhythm and ensemble dynamics.

Content and release

Plot

Stacy, the daughter of a mother and a antiques dealer father, meets and falls in love with , a commitment-averse , during a modeling session where he photographs her. Despite initial resistance from Gene, the two quickly marry in a lavish ceremony, entering a phase of early marital bliss as Chantal redecorates their apartment and adjusts to life as a photographer's . However, their happiness is soon disrupted by Chantal's envious college friend , who visits and begins flirting aggressively with Gene, posing as his new muse and sowing seeds of jealousy and insecurity in Chantal. Seeking advice from her worldly mother, Germaine, receives a dog-training manual adapted as a satirical guide to managing a , emphasizing rewards, , and consistency to shape his behavior. applies these methods in a series of humorous training montages, such as praising for attentiveness and withdrawing affection when he neglects her, which initially proves effective in making him more devoted. Tensions escalate when exposes the training scheme to , leading to a heated argument and storming out, leaving distraught. To regain his attention and spark jealousy, invents an named , arranging anonymous flower deliveries and having her mother make mysterious phone calls that hang up if answers, all while vaguely referencing this elusive suitor. The central conflict reaches a climax during a confrontation at the family home when investigates and brings home a man he believes to be the rival, only for the twist to reveal that this is actually Adam Wright, 's long-estranged father, who had assumed the alias in his own romantic deceptions years earlier. Shocked by the family secret and the layers of misunderstanding, and navigate the ensuing chaos, with Germaine confessing her role in the ruse. The couple reconciles through honest communication, forgiving each other's manipulations, and their bond strengthens upon 's announcement of her pregnancy, symbolizing a . The film offers a satirical exploration of 1960s marriage dynamics, highlighting themes of jealousy, gender roles in relationships, and the absurdity of family secrets through its lighthearted comedy.

Cast

The film stars Sandra Dee as Chantal Stacy, the protagonist and wife, and her real-life husband Bobby Darin as Eugene Wright, a photographer and husband. Key supporting roles are played by as Germaine Stacy, the mother-in-law; as Robert Swan/Adam Wright, a mysterious figure who is also the father; and John Lund as John Stacy, the father-in-law. Other notable performers include as Tina, a jealous friend; as Miss Bullitt, the secretary; and as the Doctor, in a minor comic role. The full credited cast, in approximate order of billing, is presented below. Uncredited appearances are noted where significant, though none play major roles in this production.
ActorCharacter
Chantal Stacy
Eugene Wright
Germaine Stacy
John LundJohn Stacy
Robert Swan / Adam Wright
Tina
Miss Bullitt
Doctor
Christopher KnightSon
Liza
Ted ThorpeFlorist
John Bleifer
Dani LynnBunny
Jeffrey SayreTaxicab Driver (uncredited)
Gladys Thornton Maid (uncredited)

Release

The world premiere of If a Man Answers took place at the on October 10, 1962, followed by a wide U.S. release in November 1962. Distributed by Universal-International, the film saw an international rollout beginning in 1963. At the , it performed moderately well for a , with opening-week grosses averaging 155% of normal in 20 key cities and 157% in major first-run theaters, including standout figures such as 235% in ; overall, it earned approximately $2 million in U.S. and rentals. Marketing efforts positioned the film as a for and , leveraging their real-life marriage through extensive promotional tours—Darin visited seven cities including , , and from October 2 to 18, while Dee toured nine cities such as , , and from October 1 to 17—along with tie-ins like a national campaign naming Darin "" and partnerships; posters highlighted the elements and the couple's on-screen chemistry. The film received an "Approved" rating from the Motion Picture Association of America, suitable for general audiences, with no significant censorship issues or controversies.

Reception and legacy

Critical reception

Upon its release in 1962, If a Man Answers received mixed reviews from critics, who praised its light-hearted tone and the appeal of its leads while faulting the script's predictability and lack of genuine humor. A. H. Weiler of The New York Times described the film as a light, debonair comedy in the modern idiom, highlighting the appearances of stars Sandra Dee and Bobby Darin, as well as the stylish supporting turns by Micheline Presle and Cesar Romero. However, Weiler noted that the plot's complications felt uninspired, labored, and obvious, rarely eliciting laughs despite its debonair aspirations. Reviewers often commended the on-screen chemistry between Dee and Darin, real-life spouses at the time, which lent a breezy authenticity to their newlywed dynamic, alongside the script's playful elements and Romero's entertaining as both and . Cesar Romero's comedic contributions, in particular, were singled out as highlights in several accounts. On the critical side, the film's formulaic storyline and uneven pacing in its comedic sequences drew complaints, with some contemporaries viewing its matrimonial tropes as contrived even upon release. In retrospective assessments, maintains a middling reputation, with an IMDb user rating of 6.8 out of 10 based on over 1,300 votes, reflecting its enduring draw as a piece of . Modern viewers appreciate its light-hearted charm and the nostalgic allure of Dee and Darin's pairing, but frequently its gender stereotypes, such as the portrayal of marital advice through dog-training analogies, as outdated and sexist. lacks a consensus due to insufficient reviews, though scores hover around 85%. Fan discussions on sites like emphasize the film's harmless, escapist appeal despite these flaws.

Awards and nominations

If a Man Answers received recognition during the 1963 awards season for its release the previous year. At the 20th , the film was nominated for Best Motion Picture – Musical or Comedy. Additionally, earned a nomination for Best Supporting Actor – Motion Picture for his role as Robert Swan/Adam Wright, acknowledging his dual performance in the film's comedic climax. In the 1963 Laurel Awards, presented by the Motion Picture Exhibitor Laurel organization, was nominated for Top Female Comedy Performance for her portrayal of Chantal Stacey. She placed fourth in the category. The film did not receive any nominations at the . No major festival or guild awards were bestowed upon it.

Home media and availability

The film If a Man Answers was first released on DVD in the United States by Universal Studios Home Entertainment on August 3, 2004. A remastered edition later appeared as part of the 4-Movie Laugh Pack collection, which also included (1965), (1961), and Tammy and the Doctor (1963), issued on February 7, 2017. As of 2025, no official Blu-ray edition has been released by or any major distributor. Unofficial fan restorations occasionally surface on secondary markets like , though these lack studio authorization and vary in quality. For streaming, is available ad-supported on Mometu and for DVD purchase from select retailers. It also receives occasional airings on (TCM). Internationally, limited editions were distributed in the 1980s through Universal's arm, primarily in and select markets. distribution rights remain with , leading to region-specific availability on services like and , though access can fluctuate based on licensing agreements. No new releases have occurred since the 2017 collection, but versions in standard quality are available for streaming and download in select markets including the and parts of via Universal's partnered platforms.

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