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How I Loved You

How I Loved You is the second studio by the experimental band , released on March 27, 2001, through Young God Records. Produced by the band's founder and leader —formerly of the influential group Swans—the album features ten acoustic tracks written by Gira over a two-year period, presenting a collection of introspective love songs in a meditative and western style with layered instrumentation. Recorded live in the studio to capture an organic sound, it showcases contributions from a rotating ensemble of musicians including Christoph Hahn on lap steel and , Dana Schechter on and , and guests like on select tracks. The album's cover photograph depicts Gira's mother, underscoring its personal and nostalgic themes, while songs such as "," "," and "" blend folk traditions with abstract lyricism. Critically, How I Loved You marked a softer, more intimate evolution in Gira's work compared to his Swans era, though reception was mixed, with some praising its emotional depth and others noting its occasional inaccessibility.

Background and development

Conception and songwriting

Michael Gira composed the songs for How I Loved You over a couple of years leading up to the album's release, beginning in the period following the 1999 debut album New Mother by his post-Swans project Angels of Light. These compositions emerged primarily as solo efforts, with Gira writing and demoing the material using just his voice accompanied by acoustic guitar, capturing raw, initial sketches of the tracks. As the songs took shape, they evolved from these intimate folk-like demos into more layered arrangements through collaborative performances. Gira played the pieces with a rotating group of musician friends, allowing their contributions to inspire organic developments in the music, transforming the simple structures into fuller, ensemble-driven forms while retaining their core emotional directness. This process reflected Gira's deliberate shift toward personal and introspective themes, centering on love in its varied manifestations—such as projection, jealousy, and longing—distinct from the intense, abrasive explorations of power and control in his earlier work with Swans.

Influences and context

Angels of Light was formed by in 1998, immediately following the disbandment of his previous band Swans in 1997, representing a deliberate pivot from Swans' intense noise and sonic overload to a more intimate, acoustic-driven style centered on songwriting. This transition allowed Gira to emphasize and that supported the vocals and , rather than overwhelming them with aggression. The album How I Loved You drew heavily from Gira's personal experiences, particularly reflections on relationships, , obsession, and emotional vulnerability, which served as its core inspirations rather than specific musical precedents. Composed as a collection of love songs written over two years, it incorporated bittersweet elements influenced by past relationships, including themes of , , and , with the album cover depicting Gira's parents and evoking familial . Band lineup changes between the debut album (1999) and How I Loved You further shaped its folk-oriented sound, as Gira adopted a revolving ensemble of collaborators rather than a fixed group. While featured contributors like violinist Hahn Rowe, cellist Julia Kent, and drummer , the follow-up retained Harris on percussion and hammer while introducing bassist and vocalist Dana Schechter from , alongside Bliss Blood on and vocals, Lawrence Mullins on drums, and others such as accordionist Birgit-Cassis Staudt, fostering a richer, more layered acoustic texture. This evolution brought diverse instrumental colors, including piano, melodica, and lap steel, enhancing the album's intimate, narrative-driven folk approach. In the cultural landscape of the early , How I Loved You emerged amid a burgeoning and freak folk scene, predating its peak popularity while blending traditional elements with experimental edges. The album nodded to American roots traditions through influences like country, blues, and artists such as and , incorporating primitive techniques and drone-like atmospheres that echoed broader shifts toward introspective, unpolished folk expression. Gira's arrangements, inspired by childhood exposures to figures like , created vignette-like "little films" that aligned with the era's interest in personal, narrative folk storytelling.

Recording and production

Studio sessions

The recording sessions for How I Loved You spanned several months, with the core tracks captured live in the studio to emphasize spontaneity and natural interplay among the performers. Basic tracks were recorded at Excello in , with repairs, re-recording, overdubs, mixing, and editing at Mini-Moose in . Producer , the project's primary songwriter, prioritized a minimalistic production style, limiting overdubs and orchestration to retain the raw, organic essence of the performances rather than imposing heavy layers. The sessions incorporated predominantly acoustic instruments, such as guitars, , hammer dulcimer, , , and percussion including tambourines, , and , fostering a textured sound that aligned with the album's intimate thematic core. A key production challenge involved reining in Gira's tendency toward elaborate arrangements for the album's extended compositions, ensuring the recordings preserved their close, unadorned emotional immediacy without dilution.

Key contributors

led the project as the primary vocalist, performing on acoustic and electric guitars while also serving as , shaping the album's intimate arrangements. Christoph Hahn contributed lap steel and , enhancing the album's atmospheric textures. Dana Schechter provided and backing vocals on select tracks, contributing to the rhythmic foundation and harmonic layers with additional and parts. Thor Harris added percussion elements through hammer and , along with backing vocals that enhanced the album's textured, atmospheric sound. Guest appearances included Bliss Blood, who delivered backing and double vocals on "Untitled Love Song" (track 2) as well as , bringing a distinctive vocal warmth to the ensemble. contributed additional on "My True Body" (track 3) and "" (track 8), injecting moments of raw energy into the otherwise subdued framework. The album's limited ensemble drew from a rotating group of collaborators within Gira's network, prioritizing intimacy and sparse instrumentation over expansive configurations to underscore its personal, evocative tone.

Musical style and themes

Genre characteristics

How I Loved You is primarily classified as a album, characterized by its acoustic-driven arrangements that emphasize melody and harmony over the intensity of Gira's previous work with Swans. The record features slow-building tempos and extended song structures, with several tracks extending to 8-12 minutes, such as "New City in the Future" at 11:54 and "" at 11:48, allowing for gradual development of soundscapes. The instrumental palette draws from acoustic folk traditions, incorporating guitar, , , , organ, and occasional to create a raw, ethereal texture. Tracks like "" open with a simple before expanding into fuller band arrangements, blending primitive folk elements with psychedelic and influences. This setup evokes American folk roots while incorporating expansiveness through dynamic shifts from sparse quietude to swelling crescendos. Production choices prioritize emotional resonance through barren, unpolished mixes that highlight the intimacy of the performances, contrasting quiet passages with bursts of intensity without over-reliance on effects or experimentation. The overall sound achieves a dense yet melodic quality, pushing acoustic instruments to their limits for captivating, sometimes atmospheres across its 69-minute runtime.

Lyrical content

The lyrical content of How I Loved You centers on explorations of , , , and existential despair, presented through a first-person perspective that draws from Michael Gira's personal reflections on relationships and . These themes manifest in songs that oscillate between elation and bitterness, often invoking for intimate connections marred by separation and emotional surrender, as the album is described as a collection of love songs addressing , , , and grizzled despair. For instance, the record grapples with the of loved ones, including Gira's parents—whose photographs adorn the cover—infusing the narratives with a sense of vulnerability and mourning that underscores the album's emotional core. Gira's poetic style employs abstract, repetitive phrasing reminiscent of ballads, using esoteric and flowery to evoke intimacy without resorting to clichés. In "Evangeline," the opening track, this approach is evident in lines like "There's a silver laid across the / And the city lifts up its arms to it," which build a dreamlike tableau of longing and failed relationships through wistful, incantatory of the subject's name, creating a hypnotic rhythm that mirrors unrequited devotion. The acoustic instrumentation subtly supports these , amplifying their introspective quality without overpowering the words. Gira's vocal delivery on the conveys a raw vulnerability, a stark contrast to the aggressive intensity of his earlier work with Swans, allowing the themes of despair and to emerge with . This shift enables a more tender, confessional tone that heightens the emotional weight of the narratives. Track-specific motifs further illustrate the 's depth, such as the theme of sexual dependency in "Untitled Love Song," where like "Show me your ocean red / ... Let me drink from your wounds / Let me drown in your lies" depict a consuming, almost addictive bond marked by physical and emotional entanglement. Similarly, the delves into existential despair through visions of future dystopias, reflecting on decayed relationships amid apocalyptic imagery that evokes a world stripped of hope, aligning with Gira's broader meditation on love's inevitable erosion.

Release and promotion

Release details

How I Loved You was released on March 27, 2001, through Young God Records, the independent label established by . The album was initially available on , bearing the catalog number YG16. A vinyl edition appeared in 2005 as a limited pressing of 1,000 numbered copies on double LP, issued by Broken Sparrow and Important Records. Distribution focused primarily on the , though later reissues expanded availability internationally. No promotional singles were released from the album.

Marketing efforts

The promotion of How I Loved You, released on March 27, 2001, by the independent label Young God Records, was characteristically restrained, reflecting the small-scale operations of the imprint founded by . No major singles were issued to drive commercial airplay, with efforts instead centered on grassroots outreach through indie press and alternative publications such as , Detroit Metro Times, and , which featured positive reviews highlighting the album's intimate folk-rock sensibilities. Live performances formed a key component of the campaign, as many tracks were honed through onstage collaborations prior to recording. In late 2001, Angels of Light embarked on a tour across the and to support the album, featuring new material like "Evangeline" alongside reinterpretations of earlier songs; the itinerary included stops in cities such as ; , ; and culminating on the U.S. East Coast in on December 20. Press materials distributed to outlets included a detailed release written by Gira himself, serving as an essay-like overview of the album's creation as a collection of love songs developed organically with contributors like Christoph Hahn and Dana Schechter, emphasizing themes of emotional vulnerability and relational complexity. In the digital era, accessibility expanded when How I Loved You became available for streaming and download on Bandcamp during the 2010s, allowing broader reach to Gira's audience beyond physical formats.

Reception and legacy

Critical reviews

Upon its release in 2001, How I Loved You received mixed critical reviews, with praise for its intimate songwriting tempered by critiques of its deliberate pacing and abstract lyrics. awarded the album 4.5 out of 5 stars, lauding its emotional depth and intricate arrangements as Michael Gira's most accessible work to date. Pitchfork Media offered a more lukewarm assessment, rating it 4.8 out of 10 and criticizing its overall inaccessibility and protracted song lengths, though acknowledging strengths in the atmospheric textures that evoked a sense of brooding intimacy. Reviews from other outlets were similarly varied; for instance, Brainwashed praised the album's restrained beauty and pure emotional conveyance through Gira's -inflected compositions, highlighting its experimental leanings in pieces like the epic "."

Commercial performance and reappraisal

Upon its release in , How I Loved You did not enter major music charts, aligning with the modest commercial reach typical of and experimental releases on labels like Young God Records. The album's initial sales were limited, primarily appealing to niche audiences familiar with Gira's work from Swans, without broader mainstream traction. The record saw subsequent reissues that sustained its availability to collectors and fans. A limited-edition double vinyl pressing was released in 2005 by Young God Records, marking one of the first physical reissues beyond the original CD format. In 2016, Young God Records re-released it digitally via Bandcamp, offering high-quality streaming and download options that introduced the album to newer listeners. Retrospectively, How I Loved You has garnered praise for its intimate exploration of and , often highlighted as a pivotal work in Gira's post-Swans output. A 2010 Exclaim! feature described it as "another peak in a particularly creative and fruitful period in Gira's career." Gira himself has reflected on the album's significance in post-2010 interviews, noting its role in pioneering his direct-to-fan funding model, which began with pre-orders for this release and emphasized personal connection with supporters. Later reviews, such as a 2015 article, celebrated tracks like "" for their "lushly arranged" gothic Americana style, positioning the album as a masterful blend of introspection and emotional rawness that influenced subsequent neo-folk expressions.

Track listing and credits

Songs and durations

The album How I Loved You by consists of ten tracks, all written by . The total runtime is 69:51.
No.TitleDuration
1Evangeline8:45
2Untitled Love Song4:54
3My True Body6:04
4Jennifer's Sorry3:41
5Song for 4:07
6New City in the Future11:54
7My Suicide5:41
88:11
9Public Embarrassment Blues4:46
1011:48

Personnel

Michael Gira served as the primary vocalist, playing both acoustic and as well as harmonica throughout the ; he also oversaw production and mixing duties. Dana Schechter contributed , , and backing vocals to the recordings. Thor Harris provided drums, percussion, , , and additional vocals. Christoph Hahn played lap steel and electric guitar. Birgit Staudt contributed accordion, melodica, piano, Casio synthesizer, and backing vocals. Siobhan Duffy provided backing vocals. Guest contributors included Bliss Blood on vocals for "Untitled Love Song," and Kid Congo Powers on additional electric guitar for "My True Body" and "New York Girls." The album was recorded by Doug Henderson at studios in , , including Excello and Mini-Moose, and mastered by .

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