Max Bemis
Maxim Adam Bemis (born April 6, 1984) is an American musician, singer-songwriter, and comic book writer, best known as the founder, lead vocalist, and primary songwriter of the indie rock band Say Anything, which he established in Los Angeles in 2000.[1][2][3] Bemis, who was born in New York City and raised in California, gained prominence in the emo and indie rock scenes with Say Anything's critically acclaimed albums, including the breakthrough ...Is a Real Boy (2004), which explored themes of mental health and personal turmoil reflective of his own experiences.[4][5][6] Diagnosed with bipolar disorder in his early twenties following a manic episode during the recording of that album, Bemis has been candid about his struggles with mental illness, using his platform to advocate for awareness and incorporating these elements into his creative output across music and comics.[6][7][8] In addition to his musical career, which includes side projects like the power pop band Perma (formed with musician Sherri DuPree, whom he married in 2009 and from whom he separated in 2025) and collaborations such as the supergroup Two Tongues, Bemis has established himself as a comic book creator and writer.[9][10][11][12] His notable comic works include the creator-owned series Polarity (2013), a manic-depressive superhero story published by Boom! Studios and inspired by his bipolar experiences, as well as runs on Marvel titles like Moon Knight (2016–2018), Foolkiller (2016–2017), and X-Men: Worst X-Man Ever (2016).[10][8][11] He and DuPree are parents to five children—Lucy (born 2013), Coraline (2015), Charlie (2018), Ellis (2020), and Rory (2022)—and relocated to Dallas, Texas, in 2024, where Bemis continues to balance family life with his artistic pursuits.[1] In 2024, Say Anything released their latest album ...Is Committed via Dine Alone Records, marking a return after a period of uncertainty, and Bemis announced plans for a 20th anniversary tour featuring full performances of ...Is a Real Boy.[13][5][14]Early years
Childhood and family
Max Bemis was born Maxim Adam Bemis on April 6, 1984, in New York City to a Jewish family.[15][16] His family relocated to Los Angeles during his early childhood, where he was raised in Hollywood.[17][18] Bemis has described his upbringing as a happy one, supported by dedicated and loving parents who fostered a nurturing environment until his mid-teens.[19] His father worked as a small-time film producer, occasionally involving young Bemis in minor Hollywood productions, such as uncredited roles, which provided early exposure to the arts. For example, he appeared uncredited as an altar boy in the 1997 film Face/Off and as the baby on the international poster for the 1987 film Raising Arizona.[18] Bemis's maternal grandparents were Holocaust survivors whose wartime experiences in Polish camps deeply shaped his worldview from a young age, instilling an acute awareness of human capacity for cruelty; their enduring relationship amid adversity inspired his songwriting.[20] He began taking piano lessons as a child, marking an initial foray into music that his grandparents' cultural heritage further enriched through storytelling and Jewish traditions.[18] Little is publicly known about any siblings, with Bemis's extended family primarily highlighted by his notable grandparents.[21]Education and early influences
Bemis attended Windward School, a private high school in Los Angeles, California, during his teenage years.[22] There, he connected with future bandmates such as Michael Levin and Evan Span, and the environment fostered his emerging interest in music amid a backdrop of personal challenges, including a difficult breakup that prompted him to begin songwriting.[23] His initial compositions, starting with the track "Sappy," emerged from these high school experiences, marking the onset of his prolific output as a lyricist focused on introspective and emotional themes.[23] In 2002, shortly after high school, Bemis enrolled at Sarah Lawrence College, a liberal arts institution near his family's home in New York, but he dropped out after only a few months to dedicate himself fully to music.[24] During this brief period, he recorded demos in his dorm room, including early versions of songs that would later define his style, while balancing coursework with his growing creative pursuits.[25] Bemis's early musical interests were shaped by a diverse array of influences from classic rock and the burgeoning emo and punk scenes. He cited The Beatles and Queen as foundational inspirations for their bold songwriting and theatrical elements, which informed his ambitious approach to composition.[26] Bands like Saves the Day played a pivotal role in directing him toward emo's confessional lyricism and energetic punk ethos, with their album Through Being Cool serving as a particular touchstone that encouraged him to embrace conceptual extremes in his own work.[27] These influences converged during his high school years, culminating in the formation of Say Anything in 2000 alongside friends from Windward School, an endeavor that began as informal jamming sessions and evolved into structured songwriting and performances.[28]Music career
Say Anything
Say Anything was formed in 2000 in Los Angeles, California, by Max Bemis and four high school friends—drummer Coby Linder, bassist Michael Levin, guitarist Evan Span, and guitarist Greg Dunn—while Bemis was still a teenager attending Los Angeles High School for the Visual and Performing Arts.[29] The group initially self-released two EPs, Junior Varsity and In Your Dreams, along with their debut full-length Baseball, establishing a DIY ethos rooted in punk and emo influences before signing with Doghouse Records in 2003. The band's breakthrough arrived with their second studio album, ...Is a Real Boy, released on August 3, 2004, via Doghouse Records, which sold over 20,000 copies independently and garnered widespread critical acclaim for its ambitious blend of orchestral elements, raw emotional delivery, and Bemis's confessional lyrics.[30] Following its success and Bemis's recovery from a bipolar episode that delayed touring, Say Anything signed with major label J Records in 2005, leading to a reissue of ...Is a Real Boy on February 28, 2006, that included a bonus disc of demos entitled ...Was a Real Boy and expanded the album's reach to mainstream audiences.[31] Under J Records, the band released the EP In Memoriam in 2006, a collection of punk-infused covers and originals reflecting Bemis's personal turmoil, followed by their self-titled third album in 2009, which featured guest appearances from artists like Zach Barocas of Jawbox and explored broader sonic experimentation while peaking at number 25 on the Billboard 200.) After J Records folded into RCA, Say Anything transitioned to Equal Vision Records, issuing I Don't Think It Is on February 5, 2016, a sprawling double album that pushed genre boundaries with hip-hop influences, jazz interludes, and introspective tracks, earning praise for its unfiltered ambition. The band later moved to Dine Alone Records for their 2024 release ...Is Committed, a concise pop-rock effort produced by Brad Wood that revisited the melodic urgency of their early work and supported a subsequent anniversary tour.[32][33] As Say Anything's frontman, primary songwriter, and multi-instrumentalist, Max Bemis has been the creative driving force, infusing the band's music with themes of mental health struggles, tumultuous relationships, identity, and existential angst drawn from his own battles with bipolar disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder.[34] His songwriting style combines verbose, poetic narratives with caustic humor, explicit vulnerability, and theatrical flair, often layering punk energy with pop hooks and orchestral swells to create emotionally dense concept albums. Over two decades, the band has experienced frequent lineup shifts—early members like Linder departed by 2012, with rotating contributors including guitarists Jake Turner and Parker Case—allowing Bemis to adapt the project's sound while preserving its core intensity and evolution from raw emo-punk to more eclectic rock.[35][36]Collaborative and side projects
In 2008, Max Bemis formed the indie rock supergroup Two Tongues alongside Chris Conley of Saves the Day, with additional members including drummer Coby Linder from Say Anything and guitarist David Soloway.[37] The project debuted with the self-titled album Two Tongues in 2009, released via Vagrant Records, blending pop-punk and emo elements through shared songwriting and dual vocals that highlighted the duo's complementary styles.[38] After a seven-year hiatus, they released their sophomore effort Two Tongues Two in 2016 on Equal Vision Records, featuring tracks like "Azalea" and "Truly" that explored themes of relationships and introspection, accompanied by a supporting tour.[38] Bemis co-founded the indie pop duo Perma in 2009 with then-wife Sherri DuPree-Bemis of Eisley, creating a collaborative outlet for their personal songwriting partnership.[39] Their debut full-length Two of a Crime arrived in 2013 on Rory Records, showcasing dreamy, harmony-driven tracks such as "Little Light" and "Two of a Crime" that drew from their marital experiences.[40] The band followed with Fight Fair in 2019 via Dine Alone Records, an album emphasizing resilience in relationships through songs like "Fight Fair" and "Goodbye Palace."[41] In 2022, Perma released Does Each Other independently, a collection of covers and originals including "Woe (Sherri)" and "Daze (Max)," reflecting their alternating lead vocals even after their 2025 separation.[42][12] In 2012, Bemis established Rory Records as an imprint under Equal Vision Records to support emerging artists, with the label handling distribution for various indie and punk releases.[43] Early signings included TALLHART for their debut EP and later acts like Museum Mouth, whose album Alex I Don't Care was issued in 2015, alongside Perma's output.[43][44] Beyond these projects, Bemis has contributed guest vocals to tracks by other artists, such as providing harmonies on I the Mighty's "Friends" from their 2015 album Connector, enhancing the post-hardcore outfit's emotional depth.[45]Recent activities
In 2024, Say Anything released their album ...Is Committed on May 24 via Dine Alone Records, marking the band's first full-length effort since 2019 and exploring themes of commitment, codependency, and personal turmoil through introspective emo-punk tracks.[46][13][47] That same year, the band launched a 20th anniversary tour for their seminal 2004 album ...Is a Real Boy, performing the record in full across North America, with dates extending into 2025 and including what Bemis described as the final U.S. shows featuring the complete album setlist.[48][49][50] In June 2025, Say Anything announced a joint fall tour with Motion City Soundtrack, commencing November 19 in Houston and concluding December 9 in Tempe, with Oso Oso as a special guest on select dates.[51][52] On October 25, 2025, the band surprise-released a screamo-infused cover of Animal Collective's "My Girls," reinterpreting the 2009 indie track with aggressive vocals and instrumentation true to Say Anything's style.[53] Bemis's recent musical output has addressed relational conflicts, influenced by his April 2025 separation from longtime wife Sherri DuPree, though he has not extensively discussed it in 2025 interviews.[13][12]Writing career
Comic books
Max Bemis entered the comic book industry in 2013 with the creation of Polarity, a four-issue miniseries published by Boom! Studios and illustrated by Jorge Coelho. The story centers on Tim Woods, a bipolar artist in Brooklyn who discovers superhuman abilities after discontinuing his medication, blending superhero tropes with a raw exploration of mental illness. Bemis drew inspiration for the narrative from his own experiences with bipolar disorder, aiming to portray the condition's manic and depressive phases through Woods' dual powers of empathy and aggression.[54] Bemis expanded his portfolio with work for Marvel Comics, beginning with the 2016 five-issue miniseries X-Men: Worst X-Man Ever, written by Max Bemis and illustrated by Michael Walsh. The series follows Bailey Hoskins, a young mutant whose one-time explosive power renders him seemingly useless in the X-Men world, using humor and pathos to examine themes of inadequacy and belonging among superheroes. In 2017, Bemis took over the ongoing Moon Knight series (issues #188–200), collaborating primarily with artist Jacen Burrows to delve into Marc Spector's dissociative identity disorder and battles against a new foe, the Sun King, who threatens to illuminate and dismantle his shadowy existence. These Marvel projects highlighted Bemis's ability to infuse personal mental health struggles into established characters, with Moon Knight particularly resonating through its focus on psychological fragmentation.[11][55][56] Throughout his career, Bemis has consistently incorporated mental health themes into his writing, often reflecting his lived experiences with bipolar disorder to challenge stigmas and add depth to protagonists' internal conflicts. His broader contributions span multiple publishers, including subsequent series like Foolkiller (2016–2017) for Marvel and Black Terror (2019–2020) for Dynamite Entertainment, as well as later projects like the ongoing series Heavy (2020–present) for Vault Comics_[57], the one-shot Buffy '97 (2022) for Boom! Studios[58], and contributions to Belit & Valeria: Swords vs. Sorcery (2022) for Dynamite Entertainment[59]_, resulting in over 100 credited issues that showcase his versatile narrative style in the superhero and horror genres.[54][60]Other media
Bemis briefly pursued studies in poetry during his semester at Sarah Lawrence College in 2002, reflecting an early interest in literary forms outside his musical endeavors.[26] No verified contributions to film or television scripts, cameos, or consultations post-2017 have been documented, nor are there published prose works or label-specific writings such as artist bios for Rory Records.Personal life
Mental health and identity
Bemis was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 2005 at the age of 21, following a period of intense manic episodes that began in his early twenties and culminated in a severe breakdown requiring hospitalization in a Texas psychiatric facility.[61] During one such episode at age 22, he engaged in self-destructive behavior, including running into a busy Brooklyn street amid paranoia and sleep deprivation exacerbated by ineffective medication.[62] These experiences, which delayed the release of Say Anything's debut album ...Is a Real Boy, prompted Bemis to seek professional treatment, including therapy and medication, which he has credited with stabilizing his condition over time.[63] Bemis has been a vocal advocate for mental health awareness, drawing directly from his experiences to destigmatize bipolar disorder through his creative output. In his music, he weaves themes of mania, recovery, and emotional turmoil, often reflecting on the highs of perceived invincibility during unmedicated episodes. His 2013 comic series Polarity, published by Boom! Studios, allegorizes bipolar disorder as latent superpowers suppressed by medication, with the protagonist's arc mirroring Bemis's own path from denial to acceptance; he described manic states as feeling "like you have powers," akin to "psychedelic drugs meets uppers."[61] Each issue included original songs to further blend his advocacy across mediums. Raised in a Jewish family, Bemis's cultural identity has profoundly shaped his artistic themes, serving as a lens for exploring love, resilience, and self-reflection. The song "Alive with the Glory of Love" from ...Is a Real Boy (2004) was inspired by the enduring romance of his grandparents, Holocaust survivors who met in a concentration camp, symbolizing defiant passion amid atrocity.[64] His 2014 album Hebrews delves deeper into this heritage, blending personal fatherhood narratives with Jewish motifs to reconcile his identity, as Bemis explained the title references his "Hebrew" roots while addressing broader spiritual questions.[65] In August 2018, Bemis came out as bisexual in a candid open letter to fans on Facebook, titled "GAY STUFF," where he described his orientation as "bi-ish or queer or a straight guy who can also like boys." He recounted lifelong awareness of his attractions, joking about them with friends since youth, but facing bullying, including being called a "fag," and later invalidation from others who attributed it to his bipolar disorder—"They chalked it up to my bipolar shit, which was hurtful."[66] Bemis emphasized that his queer experiences, though limited and often emotional rather than physical, were an integral part of his identity, separate from his mental health challenges.[66]Family and relationships
Max Bemis married musician Sherri DuPree, lead singer of the band Eisley, on April 4, 2009, after dating for less than a year.[67] The couple collaborated musically, forming the indie-folk duo Perma in 2013, which drew inspiration from their partnership.[68] Bemis and DuPree welcomed five children during their marriage: daughter Lucy Jean in 2013, daughter Coraline Mae in 2015, son Charles Hanley in 2018, daughter Ellis Ray Shifra in 2020, and daughter Aurora Lane in 2021.[17] The family relocated to Texas in the early 2020s, where DuPree had been raised, allowing them to build a life centered on parenting and creative pursuits.[1] The couple announced their separation on March 31, 2025, after 16 years of marriage.[12] They described the decision as mutual and emphasized their commitment to amicable co-parenting of their children, prioritizing family stability amid the transition.[12] Little is publicly known about Bemis's romantic relationships prior to DuPree, though his experiences shaped themes of love and vulnerability in his songwriting. Following the separation, Bemis has focused on maintaining close family ties, with co-parenting arrangements supporting the children's well-being as a central influence in his personal life.[1]Discography
Say Anything albums
Say Anything's debut studio album, Baseball: An Album by Say Anything, was self-released in 2001, featuring raw punk-pop tracks that showcased Bemis's early songwriting on themes of youth and frustration. This laid the groundwork for the band's sound, emphasizing Bemis's verbose lyrics and melodic hooks without the orchestral flourishes of later work.[69] This was followed by the EP Menorah/Majora in October 2002, an independent release exploring personal identity and cultural heritage through lo-fi rock arrangements.[70] The band's breakthrough studio album, ...Is a Real Boy, was released on August 3, 2004, through Doghouse Records, with a re-release on February 28, 2006, via J Records that included bonus tracks such as demos, re-recordings, and live performances recorded during the band's 2005 tour.[71] The album is structured as a concept piece following a young man's Faustian bargain with the devil to achieve punk rock fame, blending punk energy with orchestral arrangements, ironic commentary on the genre, and group sing-along harmonies.[72] Its narrative arc and ambitious production, co-produced by Tim O'Heir and Broadway composer Stephen Trask, marked Bemis's emergence as the band's primary songwriter, drawing critical acclaim for its theatricality and emotional depth.[71] The band's 2009 self-titled album, released November 3 via RCA Records, represented a stylistic shift toward polished pop-punk, with shorter songs, radio-friendly production by Butthole Surfers' Paul Leary, and themes of heartbreak and self-sabotage that toned down the conceptual ambition in favor of accessibility. Tracks like "Hate Everyone" highlighted this evolution, incorporating guest appearances from musicians such as Elvis Costello and covering a broader emotional palette while retaining Bemis's confessional style. Subsequent releases continued Bemis's thematic progression, often delving into personal turmoil, relationships, and societal critique. Anarchy, My Dear (March 13, 2012, Equal Vision Records) embraced chaotic energy with aggressive riffs and lyrics on love's destructive side, evolving from the pop-punk polish to a rawer edge. Hebrews (June 10, 2014, Equal Vision Records) marked a bold departure, forgoing electric guitars for orchestral strings and piano, focusing on self-examination, faith, and redemption through 17 tracks featuring 16 guest vocalists including Tom DeLonge and Laura Jane Grace.[73] I Don't Think It Is (November 11, 2016, Equal Vision Records) returned to guitar-driven rock, exploring mental health struggles and existential doubt in a more introspective, mature framework. The band's ninth studio album, ...Is Committed, released May 24, 2024, on Dine Alone Records, served as a reunion effort following lineup changes, blending experimental elements like auto-tune and noise rock with Bemis's signature wit on themes of reconciliation and absurdity. In October 2025, Say Anything released the surprise EP ...Is Sleazy on October 24, featuring unlistenable covers of songs by Animal Collective, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, and The Strokes, available on streaming services.[74] Compilations specific to Say Anything include All My Friends Are Enemies: Early Rarities (January 22, 2013, Equal Vision Records), a career-spanning collection of B-sides, rarities, and covers that highlighted the band's evolution from punk roots to eclectic rock.Other band albums
Max Bemis has contributed to several collaborative band projects beyond his primary work with Say Anything, including the supergroup Two Tongues and the indie pop duo Perma. These efforts highlight his versatility in shared creative spaces, often emphasizing interpersonal dynamics through vocal interplay and thematic exploration of relationships and personal growth.Two Tongues
Two Tongues, formed as a side project uniting Bemis with Chris Conley (Saves the Day), Coby Linder (Say Anything), and David Soloway (Saves the Day), debuted with their self-titled album Two Tongues in 2009 on Vagrant Records. The record exemplifies dual-vocalist dynamics, with Bemis and Conley alternating leads and harmonizing on tracks that fuse emo-pop and indie rock sensibilities, drawing from their respective bands' punk influences.[75][76] The band's sophomore effort, Two Tongues Two, arrived in 2016 via Equal Vision Records, building on the established format with more introspective lyrics and refined production while preserving the collaborative vocal trading that defines their sound.[77] No EPs or live albums have been released by the group.Perma
Perma, a husband-and-wife indie pop outfit featuring Bemis alongside Sherri DuPree-Bemis (Eisley), released their debut full-length Two of a Crime in 2013 on Rory Records, Bemis's imprint under Equal Vision. The album captures an indie rock style infused with whimsical, relationship-driven narratives, alternating between the duo's vocals to convey emotional intimacy and quirky storytelling.[78][79] A deluxe edition of Two of a Crime followed in 2014, expanding the original tracklist with additional material. The project continued with Fight Fair in 2019 on Dine Alone Records, maintaining the indie rock ethos through polished melodies and personal reflections on partnership. Their most recent release, Perma Does Each Other, emerged independently via Bandcamp in 2022, featuring split-songwriting credits that underscore the duo's balanced contributions in an accessible, heartfelt indie rock framework.[42] No EPs or live albums are associated with Perma.| Band | Album | Release Year | Label | Key Features |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Two Tongues | Two Tongues | 2009 | Vagrant Records | Dual vocals by Bemis and Conley; emo-pop fusion[75] |
| Two Tongues | Two Tongues Two | 2016 | Equal Vision Records | Continued vocal interplay; mature indie rock themes[77] |
| Perma | Two of a Crime | 2013 | Rory Records / Equal Vision | Relationship-inspired indie pop; alternating duo vocals[78] |
| Perma | Two of a Crime (Deluxe) | 2014 | Rory Records / Equal Vision | Expanded tracks from debut[80] |
| Perma | Fight Fair | 2019 | Dine Alone Records | Polished indie rock; personal partnership themes[80] |
| Perma | Perma Does Each Other | 2022 | Bandcamp (independent) | Split credits; heartfelt indie rock[42] |