Ray Romano
Raymond Albert Romano (born December 21, 1957) is an American stand-up comedian, actor, screenwriter, and producer best known for creating and starring as the bumbling sportswriter Ray Barone in the CBS sitcom Everybody Loves Raymond (1996–2005).[1][2] Born in Queens, New York City, Romano briefly studied accounting at Queens College before dropping out to pursue a career in comedy, working odd jobs such as a futon deliveryman in the process.[2] He began performing stand-up in New York comedy clubs in the mid-1980s, honing a style centered on relatable family dynamics and everyday absurdities, which eventually led to television appearances on shows like The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson and Jay Leno.[3] His big break came in 1995 with a guest spot on Late Show with David Letterman, which caught the attention of producers and resulted in the development of Everybody Loves Raymond, a semi-autobiographical series that drew from his own experiences as a husband and father.[4] The show aired for nine seasons, becoming one of CBS's highest-rated comedies and earning 69 Primetime Emmy nominations and 15 wins, including a win for Romano as Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series in 2002.[1] Following the end of Everybody Loves Raymond, Romano co-created and starred in the TNT dramedy Men of a Certain Age (2009–2011), playing a struggling salesman navigating midlife challenges.[1] He expanded into film with supporting roles in critically acclaimed projects such as The Big Sick (2017), where he played Kumail Nanjiani's father; Martin Scorsese's The Irishman (2019), as mob lawyer Bill Bufalino; Bad Education (2019); and The Best You Can (2025).[4][5] Romano made his feature directorial debut with Somewhere in Queens (2022), a comedy-drama about an Italian-American family that he also co-wrote and starred in.[2] In recent years, he has continued television work with the Netflix anthology series No Good Deed (2024), opposite Lisa Kudrow, is slated to recur as a series regular in season 2 of the Netflix comedy Running Point (2025), and hosted the Everybody Loves Raymond 30th Anniversary Reunion special (2025).[6][7] Additionally, Romano voiced the woolly mammoth Manny in the Ice Age animated franchise across five films from 2002 to 2016.[1] Romano has been married to Anna Romano (née Scarpulla) since October 11, 1987, after meeting her while working as a bank teller; the couple has four children—daughter Alexandra (born 1990) and sons Matthew, Gregory (twins, born 1993), and Joseph (born 1998)—whose lives often inspired his comedic material.[8] He also has two brothers, Richard and Robert, and maintains an interest in sports, having competed in events like the World Series of Poker and the AT&T Pebble Beach National Pro-Am golf tournament.[2]Early Life and Education
Family and Childhood
Ray Romano was born on December 21, 1957, in Queens, New York City, to Italian-American parents Albert Romano, a civil engineer and real estate broker, and Lucie Romano (née Fortini), a piano teacher.[9][10] He was the middle child, with an older brother, Richard (born 1956), who served as an NYPD sergeant for 20 years before transitioning to teaching and screenwriting, and a younger brother, Robert (born around 1966), a second-grade teacher.[11][12] Romano grew up in a middle-class Italian-American household in the Forest Hills neighborhood of Queens, where family life revolved around close-knit interactions, including sibling rivalries and protective bonds that later informed his observational humor about everyday domestic annoyances.[10][12] His parents maintained a strict yet supportive environment, with frequent outings to amusement parks and a dynamic shaped by the brothers' competitive sports play and teasing of the younger Robert, whom they nicknamed "Bean."[12] As a child, Romano was shy and awkward, grappling with insecurity and anxiety that made social situations challenging, though he found solace in interests like baseball and music, influenced by his mother's piano teaching.[13][9] He had no early aspirations for show business, instead slacking in school and considering more conventional paths like accounting before discovering comedy later in life.[13] These family experiences provided the foundation for his comedic style, emphasizing relatable sibling and parental quirks.[12]Schooling and Initial Interests
Ray Romano grew up attending public schools in the Queens neighborhood of Forest Hills, New York. He began his high school education at the private Archbishop Molloy High School in nearby Briarwood for his freshman and sophomore years before transferring to the public Hillcrest High School, where he graduated in 1975 alongside future actress Fran Drescher.[14][15] After high school, Romano enrolled at Queens College, part of the City University of New York in Flushing, intending to pursue a career in accounting. He completed only two semesters, taking introductory accounting courses, before dropping out due to a lack of clear direction in his studies.[16][17] In the years following college, Romano supported himself through a series of part-time jobs that highlighted the everyday challenges of working-class life in New York. These included roles as a bank teller at a local branch, where he met his future wife; an accountant handling financial records; and a delivery driver for a futon mattress company.[18][17][15] Romano's early hobbies underscored a practical rather than overtly artistic youth, shaped in part by his middle-class Italian-American family background. He enjoyed listening to music and records, which offered an escape and influenced his appreciation for storytelling through audio. Additionally, he engaged in casual writing during high school, earning praise from a creative-writing teacher who encouraged him not to abandon the pursuit amid his other obligations. These interests, combined with participation in school and church activities, fostered an observational worldview centered on family dynamics and ordinary experiences.[16][15]Comedy Beginnings
Stand-up Development
After growing up in Queens, New York, Ray Romano became dissatisfied with his part-time jobs in banking and accounting during the early 1980s, prompting him to explore stand-up comedy as an outlet for his observational humor.[19] He began performing at open-mic nights in New York City clubs, including the Comedy Cellar, where he cut his teeth on routines drawn from everyday absurdities like family dynamics and marriage.[20] By 1987, Romano committed to stand-up full-time, evolving his style into a relatable, everyman tone focused on wholesome, family-centric themes inspired by his middle-class upbringing, though distinct in its self-deprecating warmth compared to peers like Jerry Seinfeld.[19][21] Romano's early gigs centered on the competitive New York comedy circuit, where he refined his material through frequent performances in small venues, gradually building confidence despite inconsistent crowds.[22] A notable boost came with his first national television appearance on MTV's Half-Hour Comedy Hour in 1989, which helped increase his visibility among industry scouts.[23] These outings allowed him to test bits on personal experiences, setting the stage for his signature approach without yet achieving widespread recognition. Throughout this period, Romano faced significant challenges, including balancing late-night performances with his day job, frequent rejections from unresponsive or empty audiences, and the emotional toll of poor sets that led him to quit stand-up twice before recommitting.[22] He later reflected on these setbacks as deeply personal, stating, "I got beat down my first time. I gave it up, and I got beat down the second time again. But luckily, I tried a third time."[22] The birth of his first child, daughter Alexandra, on August 26, 1990, further shaped his development, as he began honing material about fatherhood and parental absurdities to connect more authentically with audiences.[8]Competitions and Early Recognition
In 1989, Ray Romano entered the Johnnie Walker National Comedy Search, a prominent stand-up competition that provided significant exposure for emerging comedians. He won the New York regional contest, securing a spot in the national finals and earning a performance on the televised special, which aired in 1990.[19][24] This achievement highlighted Romano's relatable, observational humor drawn from family life, distinguishing him among competitors. Building on this momentum, Romano made his debut on The Tonight Show Starring Johnny Carson on November 15, 1991, delivering a stand-up set that garnered positive attention from the host and audience. The appearance, one of Carson's final seasons, served as a key milestone in late-night comedy, often propelling performers toward broader opportunities.[25][26] Throughout the early 1990s, Romano continued to gain recognition through live comedy events and additional voice work, including a guest role as himself on the animated series Dr. Katz, Professional Therapist in 1995, where he participated in a therapy session segment. These successes, rooted in competitive platforms and festival performances, attracted talent agency interest and resulted in development deals for television pilots, transitioning Romano from local club stages to national prospects.[27][28]Television Career
Breakthrough with Everybody Loves Raymond
Ray Romano's breakthrough arrived with the CBS sitcom Everybody Loves Raymond, which originated from his stand-up comedy routines about family dynamics. After performing on The Late Show with David Letterman in 1995, Romano secured a development deal with CBS, leading to a pilot pitched that year based directly on his personal anecdotes as a husband and father.[29] The series premiered on September 13, 1996, and aired for nine seasons, producing 210 episodes before concluding on May 16, 2005.[30] In it, Romano starred as Raymond Barone, a sportswriter for Newsday and father of three grappling with the quirks of his overbearing parents and resentful brother, a portrayal drawn authentically from Romano's own life experiences with his wife and children to infuse the character with relatable realism. Created by Phil Rosenthal, the show featured Romano in dual capacities as lead actor and executive producer, allowing him significant input on its direction.[31] Production emphasized ensemble comedy, with strong contributions from co-stars like Patricia Heaton as the exasperated wife Debra and Brad Garrett as the towering, insecure brother Robert, fostering on-set chemistry that mirrored the family's chaotic warmth and propelled the humor.[31] Everybody Loves Raymond became a syndication powerhouse, ranking consistently in the top five among off-network sitcoms, while its universal family themes drove international appeal through global distribution and adaptations in markets like Russia.[32][33] The series peaked with its May 2005 finale, attracting 33 million viewers and solidifying Romano's status as a television icon.[34]Subsequent Series and Guest Roles
Following the conclusion of Everybody Loves Raymond in 2005, Romano co-created, co-wrote, and starred in the TNT dramedy series Men of a Certain Age (2009–2011), where he portrayed Joe Tranelli, a divorced father and party supply store owner grappling with midlife challenges including a gambling addiction and stalled acting aspirations.[35] The show, which explored themes of friendship and personal crises among three men in their forties, received critical acclaim for its authentic depiction of aging and earned Romano a Peabody Award in 2011, but was canceled after two seasons due to declining viewership.[16] Romano made several notable guest appearances on television throughout the late 1990s and early 2000s, including roles on Cosby in 1997 as Ray Barone in the crossover episode "Lucas Raymondicus".[4] Post-Raymond, he continued with voice work on The Simpsons, voicing the unreliable roofer Ray Magini in the 2005 episode "Don't Fear the Roofer".[36] In more recent years, Romano appeared in brief arcs such as the 2016 guest role of pushy hot tub salesman Vic Margolis on Kevin Can Wait.[37] In 2021, Romano starred as the eccentric widower and retired con man Herbert Green in the HBO Max dark comedy Made for Love, playing the estranged father of the protagonist who develops an unusual relationship with a sex doll.[38] The series, based on Alissa Nutting's novel, ran for two seasons and highlighted Romano's ability to blend humor with pathos in dysfunctional family dynamics.[39] In 2024, Romano starred as Paul Morgan, an empty-nester real estate agent dealing with family secrets in the Netflix dark comedy No Good Deed, opposite Lisa Kudrow as his wife Lydia.[40] The eight-episode series, created by Liz Feldman, premiered on December 12, 2024, and follows multiple families competing for the same Los Angeles home. By 2025, Romano expanded his television presence with a recurring role as Coach Norm Stinson on Season 2 of Netflix's basketball comedy Running Point, announced in October 2025, where he joins Kate Hudson in the story of a family-run WNBA team.[6] Earlier that year, on September 14, 2025, Romano reunited with former Everybody Loves Raymond co-star Brad Garrett at the 77th Primetime Emmy Awards to present the Outstanding Comedy Series award, delivering a humorous skit that reminisced about their on-screen sibling dynamic.[41]Film Career
Supporting Roles
Ray Romano made his feature film debut providing the voice of the woolly mammoth Manny in the animated ensemble Ice Age (2002), a role he reprised in four sequels through Ice Age: Collision Course (2016), contributing to the franchise's comedic family dynamics as a gruff yet protective patriarch.[19] His early live-action film appearances were limited, but he took on a prominent supporting part in the comedy Welcome to Mooseport (2004), playing Handy Harrison, a small-town hardware store owner drawn into a mayoral race against a former U.S. president portrayed by Gene Hackman.[42] In The Last Word (2008), Romano portrayed Abel, a quirky suicidal client who befriends a poet who writes suicide notes for hire, showcasing his ability to blend humor with pathos in a smaller ensemble role.[43] He continued in supporting capacities with the thriller 95 Miles to Go (2004), a documentary-style film where he appeared as himself during a stand-up tour, though this blurred lines between acting and personal narrative. Later, in the independent drama Paddleton (2019), Romano played Andy, the loyal friend of Michael (Mark Duplass), a man facing terminal cancer, delivering a subdued performance that highlighted themes of male friendship and loss.[44] Romano's dramatic range expanded notably in Martin Scorsese's The Irishman (2019), where he portrayed Bill Bufalino, the cousin and lawyer to Jimmy Hoffa (Al Pacino), in a pivotal supporting role amid the film's sprawling mob narrative. Critics praised Romano's transition from sitcom familiarity to a more restrained, authentic depiction of a mid-century attorney, marking a significant shift from his comedic roots.[45] He also appeared as Big Bob Spicer, a school board member, in the HBO film Bad Education (2019), a dark comedy based on a real-life school embezzlement scandal.[46] In 2024, Romano played Henry Smalls in the romantic comedy Fly Me to the Moon, opposite Scarlett Johansson and Channing Tatum. This role, alongside brief voice extensions in the Ice Age series, underscored his versatility in ensemble films during the mid-2010s.[47][48]Lead Roles and Directorial Work
Ray Romano has taken on several lead roles in feature films throughout his career, often portraying everyman characters grappling with family dynamics and personal insecurities, drawing from his comedic roots while exploring dramatic depths. In Welcome to Mooseport (2004), he starred as Handy Harrison, a local plumber thrust into a mayoral race against former President Gene Hackman, showcasing his timing in a political satire that highlighted small-town absurdities.[42] Romano continued to secure prominent leads in independent films, emphasizing relational tensions. He portrayed Cardozo, a tabloid reporter entangled in a mob heist scheme, in the crime comedy Rob the Mob (2014), inspired by real events and praised for its energetic ensemble dynamics. In The Big Sick (2017), Romano played Terry Gardner, the supportive yet anxious father of the protagonist's girlfriend, in this semi-autobiographical romantic comedy-drama that earned widespread acclaim for its heartfelt storytelling and Romano's nuanced performance.[49] Romano made his directorial debut with Somewhere in Queens (2022), in which he also starred as Leo Russo, a middle-aged Italian-American father whose life centers on his shy son's basketball potential, reflecting themes of parental pressure and family bonds drawn loosely from Romano's own experiences.[50] The film premiered at the Tribeca Film Festival in 2022 and was released theatrically by Roadside Attractions in April 2023, receiving critical praise for Romano's assured direction and authentic depiction of working-class Queens life, with a 92% approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes.[51] Despite modest box office earnings of approximately $1.9 million, it was lauded for its warm humor and emotional resonance, marking a significant milestone in Romano's evolution as a multifaceted filmmaker.[52]Other Professional Work
Writing Contributions
Ray Romano made significant contributions as a writer in television, particularly through his involvement in scripting episodes that drew from personal experiences to infuse humor into family and relational dynamics. During the run of Everybody Loves Raymond (1996–2005), Romano co-wrote 15 episodes, often collaborating with the writing staff to develop storylines inspired by his own life as a husband and father.[53] These scripts emphasized autobiographical elements, with approximately 90 percent of the series' plots derived from real-life anecdotes shared by Romano, creator Phil Rosenthal, and other writers, resulting in relatable, humor-infused dialogue centered on everyday conflicts.[54] A representative example is the 1996 Christmas episode "The Ball," which Romano co-wrote and which explores themes of family deception and reconciliation through a father's fabricated holiday gift.[55] Romano further showcased his writing talents as co-creator and writer for Men of a Certain Age (2009–2011), where he co-wrote 11 episodes alongside Mike Royce.[56] In this series, his contributions shaped narratives around male friendship, midlife transitions, and the challenges of aging, using authentic, observational humor to reflect contemporary experiences of men in their forties.[16] The writing focused on nuanced relational interactions, avoiding broad stereotypes in favor of introspective, character-driven stories. Beyond television, Romano penned his stand-up comedy specials, including the HBO Comedy Half-Hour (1996). His style across these works consistently prioritized humor rooted in autobiography, highlighting dynamics between spouses, parents, and siblings. He later co-wrote the feature film Somewhere in Queens (2022).[57][58]Voice Acting and Video Games
Ray Romano is best known for providing the voice of Manny, the woolly mammoth patriarch, in the Ice Age animated film franchise produced by Blue Sky Studios. He first voiced the character in the 2002 feature film Ice Age, portraying Manny as a gruff yet protective family man with a dry sense of humor that resonated with audiences.[59] Romano reprised the role in the sequels Ice Age: The Meltdown (2006), Ice Age: Dawn of the Dinosaurs (2009), Ice Age: Continental Drift (2012), and Ice Age: Collision Course (2016), contributing to the character's evolution from a solitary wanderer to a devoted father and leader of the herd. His performance infused Manny with relatable everyman qualities, drawing from Romano's stand-up roots to deliver understated comedic timing amid the franchise's adventurous prehistoric setting.[60] Beyond the main films, Romano lent his voice to Manny in several Ice Age shorts and specials, including Gone Nutty: Scrat's Missing Adventure (2002), No Time for Nuts (2006), A Mammoth Christmas (2011), and The Great Egg-Scapade (2016), where the character often appeared in supporting comedic scenarios involving the acorn-obsessed squirrel Scrat.[61] In television animation, Romano made a guest appearance on The Simpsons in the 2005 episode "Don't Fear the Roofer," voicing Ray Magini, a bumbling roofer who befriends Homer Simpson in a parody of Romano's sitcom persona.[36] This role highlighted his ability to play self-deprecating, relatable figures in animated formats. Romano extended his voice work to video games tied to the Ice Age series, voicing Manny in titles such as Ice Age 2: The Meltdown (2006) for PC and consoles, where players control the herd in platforming adventures, and Ice Age: Dawn of the Dinosaurs (2009) across multiple platforms, including Nintendo DS and PlayStation 2.[62] He also provided the voice for Manny in mobile and casual games like Ice Age Village (2013), Ice Age: Adventures (2014), and Ice Age: Avalanche (2015), enhancing the interactive experience with his signature gravelly delivery.[63] Through these roles, Romano brought a grounded comedic sensibility to family-oriented animation, helping the Ice Age franchise achieve significant commercial success with its films collectively grossing over $3 billion worldwide.[64] His portrayal of Manny emphasized themes of family and friendship, making the character a staple in accessible, humorous animated entertainment for multiple generations.Personal Life
Marriage and Family
Ray Romano married Anna Scarpulla on October 11, 1987, after meeting her in 1983 while both worked as bank tellers in Queens, New York. They began dating in 1985, following Romano's departure from the bank, and their relationship provided a stable foundation amid his emerging comedy career.[65] The couple has four children: daughter Alexandra, born on August 26, 1990; identical twin sons Matthew and Gregory, born on January 12, 1993; and youngest son Joseph, born on February 16, 1998. All of the children have ventured into the entertainment industry, reflecting a family inclination toward creative pursuits. Alexandra has worked as a producer and appeared in small acting roles, including voicing a character in Ice Age: Continental Drift (2012). Matthew has acted in films such as Up in the Air (2009) and Made for Love (2021), while Gregory has credits as an actor and writer in projects like Somewhere in Queens (2022). The twins co-directed and starred in the 2024 documentary The Romano Twins, exploring their quarter-life challenges growing up with a famous father. Joseph has contributed voice work to the Ice Age franchise, including Dawn of the Dinosaurs (2009).[8][66][67][68] Romano has often credited Anna with grounding him throughout his career, noting her lack of interest in the spotlight and her ability to understand his needs without demanding attention. "The reason [our marriage] works is because she is a person who (a) doesn't need attention and (b) can understand how I feel about her," he shared in a 2019 interview. The family splits time between homes in New York, honoring their roots, and California, where they built a serene desert retreat in La Quinta designed by Nate Berkus. Despite Romano's public profile, the family prioritizes privacy, with the children largely avoiding extensive media exposure.[69][65] In a nod to their low-key approach, Romano returned to Instagram on January 19, 2025, after a five-year hiatus, humorously acknowledging that his wife and children had managed his account during his absence from social media.[70]Health Challenges and Philanthropy
In 2023, Ray Romano experienced a significant health scare when doctors discovered a 90 percent blockage in his main artery, referred to as the "widowmaker," due to longstanding high cholesterol levels.[71] He underwent a procedure to insert a stent, crediting routine checkups and his family's support for enabling a swift intervention that prevented a potentially fatal heart attack. Romano has since been vocal about the experience, emphasizing the role of his wife Anna and children in his recovery and the importance of proactive health monitoring for those with similar risk factors.[72] Romano has also shared his lifelong struggles with anxiety and depression, which he discussed publicly to reduce stigma around mental health.[73] These challenges, compounded by the emotional toll of his wife's 2010 breast cancer diagnosis and successful treatment, have deepened his commitment to health advocacy.[74] Alongside his wife Anna, Romano co-founded the Rar Family Foundation in 2011, which focuses on supporting cancer research and related initiatives, including grants to the Jonsson Cancer Center Foundation at UCLA.[75] Following Anna's diagnosis, the couple has donated to various cancer causes, with Romano participating in Stand Up to Cancer telethons and promotional campaigns to raise awareness and funds.[76] He has hosted annual comedy celebrations for the International Myeloma Foundation to honor his late "Everybody Loves Raymond" co-star Peter Boyle, who died from multiple myeloma in 2006, raising significant funds for research.[77] Additionally, Romano supports lung cancer awareness through personal fundraising efforts with the LUNGevity Foundation.[78] In recent years, Romano has continued his philanthropic efforts through high-profile charity events, including a comedy special at the 2025 American Century Championship on July 25, which benefited multiple causes via the celebrity golf tournament's proceeds.[79] During the 2025 Primetime Emmy Awards reunion segment with co-star Brad Garrett, Romano highlighted themes of resilience in the face of personal adversities, tying into his broader advocacy for health and recovery.[80]Awards and Recognition
Emmy Awards
Ray Romano received three Primetime Emmy Awards for his work on the CBS sitcom Everybody Loves Raymond, highlighting his contributions as both performer and executive producer. His sole acting win came in 2002 for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series, recognizing his portrayal of the everyman sportswriter Ray Barone, a role that blended relatable humor with family dynamics.[81] As an executive producer, Romano shared in two additional victories for Outstanding Comedy Series, first in 2003 for the show's sharp ensemble storytelling and again in 2005 as it concluded its nine-season run, cementing its place among acclaimed family comedies.[82] Throughout Everybody Loves Raymond's tenure from 1996 to 2005, Romano earned six nominations for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series, spanning 1999 to 2005 (excluding 2003), reflecting consistent critical acclaim for his deadpan delivery and improvisational flair.[2] These included nods in 1999, 2000, 2001, 2004, and 2005, alongside his 2002 victory. He also received nominations for writing, notably in 1998 for the episode "Bad Moon Rising" co-written with Philip Rosenthal, and in 2000 for another installment, showcasing his behind-the-scenes creative input.[83] As executive producer, Romano was part of the show's multiple Outstanding Comedy Series nominations in 1999, 2000, 2001, 2002, and 2004, further underscoring the series' broad impact. These accolades elevated Romano's profile, establishing him as a leading figure in sitcom television during the early 2000s. In more recent years, Romano returned to the Emmy stage in a ceremonial capacity. On September 14, 2025, at the 77th Primetime Emmy Awards, he reunited with former co-star Brad Garrett to present the Outstanding Comedy Series award, delivering a lighthearted roast that evoked nostalgia for their Everybody Loves Raymond dynamic and drew applause for its impromptu humor.[84]| Year | Category | Result | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1998 | Outstanding Writing for a Comedy Series ("Bad Moon Rising") | Nomination | Co-written with Philip Rosenthal[83] |
| 1999 | Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series | Nomination | For Everybody Loves Raymond[2] |
| 2000 | Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series | Nomination | For Everybody Loves Raymond[2] |
| 2000 | Outstanding Writing for a Comedy Series | Nomination | For Everybody Loves Raymond[83] |
| 2001 | Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series | Nomination | For Everybody Loves Raymond[2] |
| 2001 | Outstanding Comedy Series (Executive Producer) | Nomination | For Everybody Loves Raymond |
| 2002 | Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series | Win | For Everybody Loves Raymond[81] |
| 2003 | Outstanding Comedy Series (Executive Producer) | Win | For Everybody Loves Raymond[82] |
| 2004 | Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series | Nomination | For Everybody Loves Raymond[2] |
| 2005 | Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series | Nomination | For Everybody Loves Raymond[85] |
| 2005 | Outstanding Comedy Series (Executive Producer) | Win | For Everybody Loves Raymond |