The Object of My Affection
The Object of My Affection is a 1998 American romantic comedy-drama film directed by Nicholas Hytner and written by Wendy Wasserstein, adapted from Stephen McCauley's 1987 novel of the same name.[1][2] The film stars Jennifer Aniston as Nina Borowski, a New York City social worker who becomes pregnant by her boyfriend and subsequently invites her gay best friend, elementary school teacher George Hanson (Paul Rudd), to move in with her after he ends a relationship.[3][2] Nina develops romantic feelings for George, complicating their platonic arrangement to co-parent the child, while George begins dating another man.[4][5] Produced by Fox 2000 Pictures with a budget of $15 million, the film explores themes of unconventional relationships, friendship, and unrequited love through its ensemble cast, including supporting roles by Alan Alda, Nigel Hawthorne, and Tim Daly.[6][2] Released theatrically on April 17, 1998, it received mixed critical reception, with a 53% approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes based on 57 reviews, praising the performances of Aniston and Rudd but critiquing the screenplay's handling of emotional depth.[3][5] Commercially, it grossed $29.1 million domestically and $46.9 million worldwide, marking a moderate box office success.[7][3]Synopsis
Plot Summary
Nina Borowski, a social worker in New York City, becomes pregnant by her boyfriend, Vince McBride, an ambitious district attorney, but ends their relationship after determining she does not wish to marry him or continue the partnership.[5][3] She invites her recently single gay friend, George Hanson, a first-grade schoolteacher who has been left by his boyfriend Robert Joley, a literary agent, to share her Brooklyn brownstone apartment as roommates.[5][3] As Nina's pregnancy advances, she proposes that George assist in raising the child in a platonic co-parenting arrangement, to which he consents, viewing it as a supportive friendship.[2] George integrates into Nina's family circle, including interactions with her sister Constance and brother-in-law Sidney, who offer advice and involvement; he also engages with his young students during school activities and attends social gatherings with Nina's work colleagues.[5] Meanwhile, George begins a romantic relationship with pediatrician Dr. Paul James, whom he meets through mutual acquaintances.[3] Nina develops unreciprocated romantic feelings for George, leading to jealousy over his relationship with Paul and strain in their household dynamic, exacerbated by advice from Paul's mentor, the aging drama critic Rodney, who warns of the arrangement's unsustainability.[5] Tensions escalate during Nina's late pregnancy, including a brief encounter where Nina sleeps with another man, further complicating emotions. Following the birth of their daughter, Molly, in late 1998, Nina confronts the incompatibility of her feelings with their platonic setup and requests George move out to allow her to pursue a traditional family structure.[8][9] George departs but maintains involvement as a supportive figure in Molly's life, affirming his commitment to co-parenting responsibilities despite the separation.[8]Cast and Characters
Principal Cast
Jennifer Aniston portrays Nina Borowski, a pregnant social worker navigating personal relationships.[2] Paul Rudd plays George Hanson, Nina's gay roommate and friend who relocates to her apartment after ending a relationship.[2] This role represented an early leading film appearance for Rudd, following supporting parts in films like Clueless (1995).[10] Alan Alda appears as Sidney Miller, Nina's uncle and a prominent literary figure.[11] Nigel Hawthorne is cast as Rodney Fraser, George's ex-partner and a magazine editor.[10] John Pankow plays Vince McBride, Nina's ex-husband.[12] Additional supporting roles include Tim Daly as Dr. Robert Joley, Tim Blake Nelson as Harry, and Amisha Gandhi in a minor part.[13] Initially, Sarah Jessica Parker and Robert Downey Jr. were attached to star as Nina and George, respectively, but Aniston and Rudd ultimately filled the leads for the 1998 production.[2]Production
Development and Pre-Production
The film adaptation originated from Stephen McCauley's 1987 novel The Object of My Affection, which explores themes of unconventional relationships and personal fulfillment among urban professionals.[14] Playwright Wendy Wasserstein was commissioned to write the screenplay, completing an early draft by July 1996, with the goal of preserving the source material's emotional depth while broadening its appeal through heightened comedic elements to suit a mainstream audience.[15] Her adaptation shifted some of the novel's introspective narrative toward more dialogue-driven scenes emphasizing interpersonal tensions, reflecting her background in blending humor and social commentary in works like The Heidi Chronicles.[16] Development proceeded under producer Laurence Mark at 20th Century Fox, with British theater director Nicholas Hytner attached by May 1997 to helm the project, drawn to its examination of non-traditional family structures.[17] Pre-production emphasized script refinements to equilibrate the dramatic core—centered on a straight woman's unrequited affection for her gay friend—with lighter romantic comedy tropes, including revisions to character arcs for greater accessibility. Casting prioritized performers capable of nuanced portrayals of platonic intimacy and emotional ambiguity; Jennifer Aniston was selected for the lead role of Nina Borowski, capitalizing on her rising post-Friends profile, while Paul Rudd was chosen as George Hanson to embody the roommate's affable yet conflicted charm.[18] These choices aimed to ground the film's causal exploration of desire and cohabitation in relatable, chemistry-driven dynamics without veering into caricature.Filming and Technical Aspects
Principal photography for The Object of My Affection commenced on June 2, 1997, and concluded on August 4, 1997, with the majority of scenes captured on location to reflect the film's New York City-based narrative of urban interpersonal relationships.[19] The production spanned sites in New York City, including the Upper East Side brownstone at 15 East 81st Street used for key interior and exterior apartment shots, Central Park's Conservatory Water and Zoo for outdoor sequences, and additional exteriors at Marymount School on 1026 Fifth Avenue near East 84th Street.[20] [21] Supplementary filming occurred in New Jersey and Connecticut to accommodate varied environmental needs. The film's budget totaled $15 million, allocated toward location shoots and ensemble casting to support director Nicholas Hytner's vision of integrating naturalistic urban backdrops with intimate character interactions.[6] Cinematographer Oliver Stapleton employed 35mm film stock to achieve a grounded visual style, prioritizing available light in domestic interiors and street scenes to underscore everyday realism over stylized effects.[22] Editing by Tariq Anwar facilitated Hytner's balance of comedic timing and emotional depth through precise cuts that maintained narrative flow across the 111-minute runtime.[13] Hytner, drawing from his theater background, directed with an emphasis on rehearsal-driven performances captured in long takes, minimizing post-production alterations to preserve authentic tonal shifts between humor and pathos.[23]Release and Commercial Performance
Theatrical Release
The Object of My Affection received a wide theatrical release in the United States on April 17, 1998, distributed by 20th Century Fox.[3][24] This followed a premiere screening in Los Angeles on April 9, 1998.[25] The studio handled domestic distribution, capitalizing on the film's romantic comedy elements.[26] Marketing strategies emphasized Jennifer Aniston's prominence from her starring role as Rachel Green on the NBC sitcom Friends, which had elevated her to widespread recognition by 1998.[27] Promotional efforts, including pre-release interviews, positioned the film to attract audiences seeking lighthearted relationship stories featuring established television talent transitioning to feature films.[28] Internationally, 20th Century Fox oversaw distribution through affiliates, with rollouts staggered after the U.S. debut; examples include Australia on May 7, 1998, Argentina on June 11, 1998, and Spain and Thailand on June 19, 1998.[29][26] No major regional alterations to content or strategy were reported in available records.[29]Box Office Results
The Object of My Affection was produced on a budget of $15 million.[6] The film opened in wide theatrical release on April 17, 1998, distributed by 20th Century Fox, and grossed $9,725,855 during its opening weekend from 1,890 theaters.[7] Domestic theatrical earnings reached $29,187,243.[7] International markets contributed $17,718,646, with domestic receipts comprising approximately 62% of the total.[7] Worldwide box office gross totaled $46,905,889.[7]| Financial Metric | Amount |
|---|---|
| Production Budget | $15,000,000 [6] |
| Opening Weekend (Domestic) | $9,725,855 [7] |
| Domestic Gross | $29,187,243 [7] |
| International Gross | $17,718,646 [7] |
| Worldwide Gross | $46,905,889 [7] |
Home Media and Distribution
The film was initially released on VHS by 20th Century Fox Home Entertainment in September 1998, shortly following its theatrical debut.[30] A DVD edition followed on January 8, 2002, distributed by the same studio and featuring the standard widescreen format without additional special features beyond basic audio and subtitle options.[31] These physical media formats catered to the era's home video market, with the DVD providing enhanced picture quality over VHS but limited to NTSC standards.[32] No official Blu-ray Disc edition has been released as of 2025, despite the film's ownership transfer to Disney following its acquisition of 20th Century Fox assets in 2019.[33] Digital distribution began in the ensuing years, with availability for purchase or rental on platforms including Amazon Video and Apple TV, where it streams in standard definition or HD depending on the service.[34] [35] Subscription streaming options include Disney+ in select international regions such as the UK, Canada, Australia, and Mexico, reflecting its catalog placement as a legacy Fox title.[36] [37] In the United States, it remains primarily accessible via on-demand rental or purchase rather than ad-free subscription tiers, with no reported 4K upgrades or remastered editions in the 2020s.[37] These ancillary channels have sustained the film's post-theatrical visibility without significant re-release campaigns.Reception and Critical Analysis
Initial Critical Response
Upon its theatrical release on April 17, 1998, The Object of My Affection garnered mixed critical reception, with reviewers acknowledging strengths in performances while faulting narrative predictability. The film earned a 53% approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes from 58 critic reviews, reflecting divided opinions on its blend of romantic comedy and drama.[3] The site's critics' consensus highlighted "heartfelt performances from Jennifer Aniston and Paul Rudd" as salvaging elements of an otherwise "uneven script and predictable plotting."[3] Roger Ebert, in his April 24, 1998, review for the Chicago Sun-Times, rated the film 2 out of 4 stars, commending its engagement with "real issues" such as unconventional relationships but decrying the "wheels of the plot turning so clearly" that they eroded credibility in the characters' emotions.[5] Similarly, Peter Travers of Rolling Stone, writing on April 17, 1998, appreciated the film's "intelligence" in exploring sexual confusion through the lens of protagonist Nina Borowski's unrequited affection for her gay friend George, though he noted tonal inconsistencies in Wendy Wasserstein's screenplay adaptation.[38] Praise frequently centered on Aniston's and Rudd's chemistry and nuanced portrayals, with critics like those aggregated on Rotten Tomatoes crediting their work for injecting authenticity into the central platonic bond amid familial and romantic tensions.[3] Detractors, however, targeted rom-com tropes, including contrived conflicts around the handling of George’s homosexuality and Nina's pregnancy, which some viewed as underdeveloped or reliant on sentimental resolutions rather than deeper psychological insight.[5] Director Nicholas Hytner's handling of ensemble dynamics received occasional nods for visual warmth, but overall, the response underscored a film that intrigued without fully convincing in its emotional stakes.[38]Audience and Cultural Reception
The film garnered moderate audience interest as a lighthearted romantic comedy, appealing primarily to viewers who enjoyed its exploration of unconventional friendships and relational complexities, though many found its portrayals of characters stereotypical and underdeveloped. User-generated ratings reflect this tempered reception, with an IMDb score of 6.0 out of 10 from approximately 22,300 votes as of recent tallies, indicating general likability without widespread enthusiasm. Similarly, audience approval on Rotten Tomatoes stands at 68%, underscoring a divide where some praised the chemistry between leads Jennifer Aniston and Paul Rudd for highlighting platonic bonds over romantic clichés.[3] Over time, cultural discussions have increasingly scrutinized the film's reliance on the "gay best friend" trope, with Rudd's character embodying a supportive, non-threatening queer figure who prioritizes the straight protagonist's emotional needs. Post-release analyses in the late 1990s and early 2000s viewed this dynamic as progressive for mainstream cinema, fostering visibility for same-sex friendships amid limited LGBTQ+ representation.[39] However, 2020s retrospectives have critiqued it for perpetuating heteronormative norms, arguing that the trope confines gay male characters to ancillary roles that reinforce straight-centric narratives rather than granting them independent agency or romantic fulfillment.[40] A 2022 cultural commentary described the film's advancement of this archetype as ultimately reinforcing outdated stereotypes, contributing to calls for its retirement in contemporary media.[40] Despite its thematic ambitions, the movie has not cultivated a dedicated cult following, remaining a footnote in 1990s rom-com output rather than a revisited classic. A 2021 retrospective noted its profitability but relative obscurity compared to contemporaries like My Best Friend's Wedding, attributing this to uneven execution that failed to resonate deeply with niche audiences seeking more subversive takes on sexuality and relationships.[41] Viewer forums and social media echoes in the 2020s sporadically highlight nostalgic appreciation for its ensemble warmth but lament missed opportunities for deeper subversion, aligning with broader shifts toward demanding authentic queer storytelling over tokenized support roles.[39]Awards and Nominations
The film received no nominations from major awards bodies such as the Academy Awards or Golden Globe Awards. It earned a win for Nigel Hawthorne in the British Supporting Actor of the Year category at the London Film Critics' Circle Awards for his portrayal of Rodney Sullivan.[42] The Object of My Affection was also nominated for the GLAAD Media Award for Outstanding Film (Wide Release) in 1999, recognizing its depiction of LGBTQ+ themes in a mainstream context.[43]| Award | Category | Recipient | Result | Year |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| London Film Critics' Circle Awards | British Supporting Actor of the Year | Nigel Hawthorne | Won | 1998 |
| GLAAD Media Awards | Outstanding Film (Wide Release) | N/A | Nominated | 1999 |