To Be a Lover
"To Be a Lover" is a soul song written by William Bell and Booker T. Jones, originally released by Bell in 1968 under the title "I Forgot to Be Your Lover" on Stax Records as a poignant ballad about romantic neglect.[1] The track later achieved widespread recognition through its adaptation as a reggae version by George Faith in 1977, produced by Lee "Scratch" Perry, which shortened the title to "To Be a Lover" and infused it with dub influences.[2] Billy Idol's energetic rock cover, released in 1986 on his album Whiplash Smile, propelled the song to commercial success, peaking at number six on the Billboard Hot 100 and number two on the Mainstream Rock chart.[3] The original Bell recording exemplifies Stax's signature soul sound, featuring Jones's arrangement with horns and strings that underscore the song's themes of regret and redemption in love.[1] Idol's version, co-produced by Keith Forsey and featuring guitarist Steve Stevens, transformed it into a high-energy anthem with punk-rock edges, complete with a distinctive music video directed by David Mallet that showcased Idol's signature style.[4] Over the years, the song has been sampled in hip-hop, notably by Ludacris in his 2001 track "Growing Pains," highlighting its enduring rhythmic appeal and lyrical universality across genres.[5]Origins
Songwriting
"To Be a Lover" was co-written by William Bell and Booker T. Jones in 1968 for Stax Records.[6][7] The song originated as a soul ballad titled "I Forgot to Be Your Lover," reflecting a theme of deep regret in a romantic relationship, where the narrator laments having overlooked the essential acts of affection and intimacy that sustain love.[1][2] Booker T. Jones, known for his work as the leader of the Stax house band Booker T. & the MGs, contributed significantly as both co-writer and producer, infusing the composition with the emotive, horn-driven style characteristic of Memphis soul.[6][8] The lyrics emphasize personal accountability for relational neglect, capturing a moment of introspection and plea for forgiveness that resonated within the soul genre's tradition of heartfelt storytelling.[1] The title evolved from "I Forgot to Be Your Lover" to the shortened "To Be a Lover" beginning with reggae adaptations in the 1970s, shifting focus toward an aspirational longing for romantic fulfillment rather than solely remorse.[9][10] This change highlighted the song's versatile emotional core, allowing reinterpretations that accentuated desire over confession.[7]William Bell's original recording
William Bell recorded "I Forgot to Be Your Lover" in 1968 at Stax Studios in Memphis, Tennessee.[2][11] The track was produced by Booker T. Jones, who co-wrote the song with Bell, and features the signature Stax sound with prominent horns, lush strings, and piano accents that underscore its soul ballad style.[6][12] The recording was backed by the Stax house band, including members of Booker T. & the M.G.'s and the Memphis Horns.[11] Originally titled "I Forgot to Be Your Lover," the single runs approximately 2:19 in length and was released with "Bring the Curtain Down" as the B-side under Stax catalog number STA-0015.[13]Soul versions
William Bell release
"I Forgot to Be Your Lover" was released as a single by William Bell in November 1968 through Stax Records, the influential Memphis-based soul label known for its raw, emotive sound. The 7-inch vinyl featured the track as the A-side, backed by "Bring the Curtain Down" on the B-side, under catalog number Stax 0015.[13] The single achieved moderate commercial success, peaking at No. 45 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart and reaching No. 10 on the Billboard Hot R&B Singles chart in early 1969.[14] This performance established it as Bell's first major solo hit on the soul charts, reflecting its strong appeal within the R&B community despite limited crossover to pop audiences.[1] At the time, the song garnered praise in music publications for Bell's emotive vocals and the heartfelt lyrics that captured themes of romantic neglect and longing.[15] It was subsequently included as the opening track on Bell's 1969 album Bound to Happen, helping to solidify his position as a key Stax artist.[16]Other soul and R&B covers
Several soul and R&B artists have reinterpreted William Bell's "I Forgot to Be Your Lover" since its 1968 release, often emphasizing the song's theme of relational neglect through layered harmonies or intimate vocal deliveries that diverge from the original's raw Stax sound. These versions typically feature smoother production and updated arrangements while preserving the ballad's emotional core of regret and plea for forgiveness.[7] The Mad Lads, a Memphis soul vocal group, delivered an early cover in 1973 on the Volt label, serving as the B-side to their single "I'm So Glad I Fell in Love with You." Their rendition incorporates orchestral strings and tight group harmonies, shifting the focus from Bell's solo introspection to a collective, church-like plea that highlights vocal interplay among the members. Released amid the group's waning commercial phase after their Stax heyday, it did not achieve significant chart success but remains a notable example of 1970s soul adaptation within the label's ecosystem.[17][18] Organist and producer Al Kooper recorded a soulful cover in 1976 for his album Act Like Nothing's Wrong on Capitol Records. Kooper's version features a slow, bluesy arrangement with prominent organ work and his distinctive vocals, delivering a introspective take that underscores the song's themes of regret in a rock-soul hybrid style. Though not a commercial single, it highlighted Kooper's appreciation for Stax soul influences.[19] Southern soul singer Tommy Tate offered a faithful yet emotive take in 1990 on his album Love Me Now (also issued as Good Medicine), produced in a style reminiscent of classic deep soul with Tate's powerful, wailing vocals underscoring the lyrics' vulnerability. Clocking in at under three minutes, the track features subtle horn accents and a mid-tempo groove that contrasts the original's slower pace, emphasizing Tate's reputation as a consistent interpreter of Stax material. Though it garnered appreciation among soul enthusiasts, the album and single saw limited commercial impact on national charts.[20][2] In 2012, The Revelations featuring Tre Williams revived the song for the soundtrack to The Man with the Iron Fists, blending contemporary R&B sensibilities with retro soul production by Bob Perry. Williams' lead vocals deliver a gritty, confessional tone over a sparse arrangement of piano and horns, evoking the original's intimacy while adding a modern edge suitable for the film's aesthetic. Released on Soul Temple Records, the track contributed to the album's critical nod for its homage to classic soul but did not enter major charts.[21][22]Reggae versions
George Faith adaptation
In 1977, Jamaican singer George Faith released a reggae adaptation of William Bell's soul ballad, featured as the title track on his album To Be a Lover, issued by Black Swan Records, a subsidiary of Island Records.[23] The recording was produced by Lee "Scratch" Perry at his Black Ark Studios in Kingston, Jamaica, where Perry applied his signature experimental techniques to transform the original's smooth R&B structure into a roots reggae arrangement infused with dub effects.[24] This version marked the first major release to popularize the shortened title "To Be a Lover (Have Mercy)," extending the runtime to 6:04 with layered echoes, reverb, and percussive delays characteristic of Perry's innovative production style.[9] The personnel on the track included George Faith on lead vocals, with Perry handling production and sound effects; the backing was provided by The Upsetters, Perry's house band, featuring notable contributions from drummer Lowell "Sly" Dunbar and bassist Boris Gardiner, alongside keyboardist Winston Wright.[23] Faith's emotive, velvet-toned delivery complemented the rhythmic shift, blending soulful phrasing with reggae's offbeat groove.[25] The full album To Be a Lover comprised eight tracks, primarily reggae reinterpretations of classic soul and R&B songs, including covers of "Midnight Hour / Ya Ya," "Opportunity," "So Fine," "I've Got the Groove," "Diana," "All the Love I've Got," and "Turn Back the Hands of Time," alongside Faith's original "Opportunity."[26] A single release of "To Be a Lover (Have Mercy)" followed, highlighting Perry's dub-heavy mix that emphasized spatial audio elements like echoing vocals and instrumental fades.[9] This adaptation gained recognition within roots reggae circles for its fusion of soul influences and Perry's pioneering dub experimentation, often hailed as a standout example of lovers rock from the era's Black Ark sessions.[27] Critics have praised the track's sultry atmosphere and Perry's "kinky" sound design, which elevated Faith's performance into a hypnotic, genre-blending gem influential in the development of reggae's romantic substyle.[25]Additional reggae interpretations
In the years following George Faith's influential 1977 adaptation, which truncated the original title to "To Be a Lover," additional reggae interpretations emerged, showcasing evolutions in production and style while building on Lee "Scratch" Perry's pioneering dub techniques from his Upsetter era. These versions often extended dubs with layered echoes and reverb, emphasizing the genre's experimental side, and occasionally infused roots reggae elements with subtle Rastafarian undertones through vocal delivery and rhythmic phrasing, though the core lyrics remained a soulful plea for love.[23] Mical Rustle's dub-heavy take, released in 2003 as part of the collaborative album Twice as Nice on VP Records (a prominent Jamaican label with ties to international distribution networks like those affiliated with Island Records), focused on a prominent skanking rhythm that drove the track's infectious groove. This version, titled "Forgot to Be Your Lover," leaned into extended dub elements with heavy basslines and sparse instrumentation, echoing Perry's innovative remixing approach by stripping back the arrangement for atmospheric depth while maintaining the song's romantic essence. The production highlighted Rustle's smooth vocals over a mid-tempo riddim, contributing to the track's replay value in dancehall and roots sets.[28] Similarly, Chenley Duffus's 1971 roots reggae adaptation, produced in Jamaica by Lee Perry on the Upsetter label, offered an early blueprint for these evolutions with its call-and-response vocals that engaged listeners in a communal style typical of roots sessions. Released during the early 1970s explosion of Jamaican sound systems (approximately 1971-1972), this single built directly on Perry's dub techniques, featuring instrumental versions that extended the original riddim with echo effects and percussive drops, influencing later interpretations. Though predating 1977, its impact persisted in post-1977 productions by demonstrating how the song could incorporate Rastafarian-inflected harmonies and spiritual resonance in vocal interplays, blending romantic lyrics with the genre's socio-spiritual undertones.[29] These interpretations underscored the song's versatility within reggae, from dub extensions that prioritized instrumental experimentation to vocal adaptations that amplified call-and-response dynamics, fostering a lasting impact on the genre's lovers rock and roots substyles during the late 1970s through 2000s.[30]Billy Idol version
Recording and composition
Billy Idol selected "To Be a Lover" for his 1986 album Whiplash Smile, transforming the original soul ballad—written by William Bell and Booker T. Jones—into a high-octane rock rendition infused with punk edge and 1980s flair.[31][32] In adapting the track, Idol shortened the title from "I Forgot to Be Your Lover" and ramped up the tempo to 184 beats per minute, adding aggressive guitar riffs courtesy of Steve Stevens, layered synthesizer textures, and a driving rhythm section to inject urgency and rebellion, while preserving the essential lyrics in his signature sneering, defiant delivery.[33][34] Recording took place over 1985 and 1986 at Right Track Studios and Unique Recording Studios in New York City, with longtime collaborator Keith Forsey handling production duties to blend Idol's raw energy with polished studio sheen.[34][35] The core lineup featured Billy Idol on lead vocals and rhythm guitar, Steve Stevens on lead guitar and keyboards, Thommy Price on drums, bass contributions from John Regan and Marcus Miller, and additional backing vocals by Connie Harvey, Janet Wright, and Jocelyn Brown specifically for this track.[34]Release and formats
"To Be a Lover" was released in September 1986 as the lead single from Billy Idol's third studio album, Whiplash Smile, by Chrysalis Records.[36] The single was issued in multiple formats, including 7-inch vinyl in the UK and extended 12-inch versions in the UK and Australia, featuring remixes and additional tracks to appeal to both radio and club audiences.[37][38][39] The UK 7-inch single (catalog number IDOL 8) featured the standard album version on the A-side and the non-album B-side "All Summer Single" on the reverse.[37]| Side | Track | Duration | Writer(s) |
|---|---|---|---|
| A | To Be a Lover | 3:50 | William Bell, Booker T. Jones |
| B | All Summer Single | 4:33 | Billy Idol |
| Side | Track | Duration | Remix/Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| A | To Be a Lover (Mother of Mercy Mix) | 6:45 | Extended remix |
| B1 | To Be a Lover | 4:07 | Album version |
| B2 | All Summer Single | 4:33 | Billy Idol |