Nate Boyer
Nate Boyer (born January 9, 1981) is an American retired U.S. Army Special Forces Green Beret, former National Football League long snapper, actor, film producer, and co-founder of the veterans' support organization Merging Vets and Players.[1][2] Enlisting in the U.S. Army in 2005 after the September 11 terrorist attacks, Boyer completed Special Forces Qualification Course training and earned the Green Beret in December 2006, subsequently deploying to Iraq and Afghanistan as a member of the 10th Special Forces Group.[3][4] During his decade of service, he received a Bronze Star Medal with Valor device for combat heroism.[5] Lacking prior organized football experience, Boyer walked on to the University of Texas Longhorns in 2010 at age 29, becoming the starting long snapper for placekicks and punts over his final three seasons while appearing in 39 games.[6][3] He signed with the Seattle Seahawks as an undrafted free agent in 2015, spending training camp and preseason as a long snapper before being released prior to the regular season.[7] Boyer entered public discourse in 2016 after penning an open letter to Colin Kaepernick in Army Times, leading to a meeting where he proposed kneeling during the national anthem—rather than sitting—as a protest method intended to convey respect for military customs while expressing dissent against perceived racial injustice.[8][9] This suggestion, rooted in Boyer's military background where kneeling signifies mourning or prayer, influenced Kaepernick's subsequent actions and sparked widespread emulation across the NFL, igniting debates over patriotism, free speech, and protest etiquette.[10][11] Beyond athletics and advocacy, Boyer has pursued acting and production, appearing as a U.S. Navy SEAL in the film Zero Dark Thirty (2012) based on his real operational insights and co-creating the NFL Network series Indivisible with Nate Boyer, which highlights veterans' transitions to civilian life.[2][12]Early Life and Education
Family Background and Upbringing
Nate Boyer was born on January 9, 1981, in Oak Ridge, Tennessee, where his father was attending veterinary school.[13][14] His family soon relocated to Northern California, settling in the Bay Area suburbs east of San Francisco, including Pleasanton, where Boyer spent much of his formative years after moving there at age 14.[15] His father worked as a racehorse veterinarian, while his mother was an environmental engineer, providing a stable, middle-class household that emphasized education and comfort amid the region's affluent environment.[16][17] Boyer's upbringing fostered a sense of discipline and self-reliance, shaped by parental focus on academic achievement in a setting where school held high priority. He attended Amador Valley High School in Pleasanton before graduating from Valley Christian High School in Dublin, California, in 1999. During high school, he engaged in sports such as baseball and basketball, activities that built physical resilience and teamwork skills reflective of his early environment's encouragement of structured pursuits.[18][15] The September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks profoundly impacted Boyer at age 20, occurring as he navigated post-high school uncertainty in a comfortable but directionless phase of young adulthood; this event crystallized a pragmatic response to perceived threats against national security, underscoring an innate patriotism rooted in direct observation of vulnerability rather than ideological abstraction.[19][20]Pre-Military Education and Influences
Boyer grew up in the Bay Area suburbs of California, attending Valley Christian High School in Dublin, where he played baseball and basketball but had no opportunity to participate in football as the school lacked a team.[19] During this period, he encountered personal challenges, including arrests for shoplifting and declining academic performance, reflecting a restless youth amid perceptions of suburban complacency.[16] Following high school graduation around 2000, he moved to San Diego at age 18 and enrolled in a firefighting program at Mesa Community College, but dropped out after one year; he briefly reenrolled before departing permanently, prioritizing experiential pursuits over structured academia.[16][15] In his early twenties, Boyer relocated to Los Angeles to pursue acting, sustaining himself through odd jobs such as working on a fishing boat and as a sandwich maker, while living in his Honda Civic for six months due to financial constraints; he also mentored autistic children and appeared in a Greyhound bus commercial.[15][19] These years involved travels to Mexico and Europe, fostering a sense of dissatisfaction with his privileged background and inspiring admiration for figures like Che Guevara after reading The Motorcycle Diaries, which emphasized personal agency in addressing global inequities.[15] In 2004, motivated by a Time magazine cover story on the Darfur genocide, he independently traveled to the Sudan-Chad border region, volunteering for about a month with the Christian Children's Fund in Abéché, Chad, to aid Sudanese refugees; during this time, he faced life-threatening risks, including a near-fatal checkpoint encounter and contracting malaria, which required recovery with a local Chadian family.[16][15][21] The September 11, 2001, attacks, viewed by the 20-year-old Boyer on television in a Hollywood apartment, evoked anger and a nascent call to action, though it did not immediately prompt enlistment; instead, it compounded his existing drift, with the Darfur experience proving decisive by highlighting the limitations of humanitarian aid and conversations with locals praising U.S. military effectiveness, ultimately directing him toward structured service at age 23.[15][19] This non-linear path, marked by academic interruptions and real-world immersions, cultivated resilience and a pragmatic worldview, prioritizing tangible impact over conventional timelines.[16]Military Service
Enlistment and Special Forces Training
Nate Boyer enlisted in the U.S. Army in 2005 at the age of 24, motivated by the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks and a desire to directly counter such threats.[22][16] He entered through the Army's 18X Special Forces enlistment option, which allows civilians to attempt Special Forces Assessment and Selection (SFAS) immediately after basic combat training and Airborne School, bypassing traditional infantry service.[23][16][13] The 18X pathway subjected Boyer to an accelerated and highly demanding selection process, including SFAS—a 24-day ordeal testing physical endurance, mental resilience, and problem-solving under stress, with participants carrying heavy rucksacks over rugged terrain and navigating land navigation courses.[24] Successful candidates then enter the Special Forces Qualification Course (Q Course), a multi-phase program lasting up to 18 months that covers small-unit tactics, weapons proficiency, medical skills, and specialized training in unconventional warfare and foreign internal defense.[24] Boyer completed this rigorous pipeline, earning the Green Beret in December 2006 as one of only 11 out of 140 in his class, reflecting a completion rate of approximately 7-8% that underscores the merit-based attrition driven by physical and psychological demands.[25][21] During the Q Course, Boyer acquired expertise in language training, cultural immersion for advising foreign forces, and operations in austere environments, skills central to Special Forces roles in indirect approaches to conflict.[26] The program's low overall success rates—typically under 20% from enlistment to qualification—highlight its design to select only those capable of sustained performance amid sleep deprivation, injury risks, and failure rates exceeding 90% in early phases.[16][20]Deployments and Combat Experience
Boyer deployed to Iraq in April 2008 as a member of Operational Detachment Alpha 0324, 10th Special Forces Group (Airborne), in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom.[27] His unit operated primarily from Najaf, conducting direct action raids and supporting counterinsurgency operations against insurgent networks in a region marked by frequent improvised explosive device (IED) attacks and ambushes.[28] Early in the deployment, an IED detonated on the vehicle ahead of his convoy, highlighting the persistent tactical risks of patrolling contested urban and rural areas.[28] These missions involved close coordination with Iraqi security forces for intelligence-driven operations aimed at disrupting enemy supply lines and leadership structures, though outcomes were constrained by local insurgent adaptability and sectarian dynamics.[27] Upon completion of the tour in 2009, Boyer was awarded the Bronze Star Medal for meritorious achievement in combat, recognizing his role in sustaining operational tempo under fire.[29] Boyer later conducted multiple deployments to Afghanistan under Operation Enduring Freedom, including rotations in 2013 and 2014 with elements of the 19th Special Forces Group (Airborne) after transitioning to the National Guard.[30] [21] These included two approximately 180-day tours focused on advising and training Afghan National Army and police units in direct action tactics and village stability operations, often in remote provinces where U.S. forces faced asymmetric threats from Taliban fighters embedded in civilian populations.[20] He also contributed to Special Operations Joint Task Force-Afghanistan efforts, emphasizing foreign internal defense to build partner capacity amid high operational attrition from roadside bombs and small-arms fire.[4]Post-Service Transition Challenges
Following his honorable discharge from the U.S. Army in 2009 after six years of service, including multiple combat deployments as a Green Beret, Nate Boyer encountered significant challenges in readjusting to civilian life, marked by a profound loss of identity and the absence of the military's rigid structure. This transition void, common among Special Forces operators who thrive in high-stakes, mission-oriented environments, left him grappling with aimlessness as he sought a new sense of purpose outside the uniform.[31][20] Special Forces veterans like Boyer face elevated risks of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) due to prolonged exposure to intense combat and operational demands, with symptoms such as hypervigilance, sleep disturbances, and emotional numbing complicating reintegration. Broader empirical data underscores these hurdles: in 2010, U.S. veterans experienced a suicide rate of approximately 27.4 per 100,000, higher than the general population, equating to an average of 22 veteran suicides daily, often linked to untreated PTSD and transition stress rather than combat alone. Civilian skill gaps further exacerbate issues, as elite military training in tactics, leadership, and resilience does not readily translate to corporate or everyday professional contexts, leading to underemployment or frustration in entry-level roles.[32][33][34] Boyer's military-honed discipline provided a foundation for perseverance amid these psychological and practical barriers, yet it proved insufficient to fully mitigate the disorientation of losing daily camaraderie and clear objectives, highlighting causal factors like the mismatch between wartime intensity and peacetime ambiguity. He later reflected on the need for ongoing contributions to societal betterment to recapture a service-oriented identity, a sentiment echoed in his experiences of initial insecurities and the challenge of reframing his expertise for civilian validation.[35][31]Football Career
College Football at University of Texas
Boyer enrolled at the University of Texas at Austin in 2010 at age 29 after completing his military service and walked on to the Longhorns football team, despite having no prior experience in organized football.[25][36] He redshirted as a freshman that year, appearing in one game during the 2011 season against Texas Tech.[6] As a long snapper, Boyer earned a scholarship prior to the 2012 season and became the primary snapper for point-after-touchdown and field goal attempts over his final three seasons, also handling punt snaps in 2013 and 2014.[6] He participated in 38 consecutive games from 2012 through his senior year, delivering over 500 snaps without a single inaccuracy, a record of reliability that underscored his precision under pressure despite his unconventional entry and advanced age relative to teammates.[20][25] His role, though specialized and with minimal offensive or defensive snaps, exemplified perseverance as a late-blooming athlete who transitioned from combat zones to collegiate competition. Boyer maintained academic excellence amid his five-year athletic tenure, graduating in May 2013 with a bachelor's degree in sport management and a cumulative GPA of 3.836.[37] He received First-Team Academic All-Big 12 honors, reflecting the discipline gained from his prior service that enabled him to balance rigorous training, limited but consistent playing time, and coursework.[5] This maturity distinguished him on a team of younger players, fostering a unique perspective on resilience without overshadowing his foundational contributions as a walk-on specialist.NFL Tryout and Time with Seattle Seahawks
In May 2015, at age 34, Nate Boyer signed with the Seattle Seahawks as an undrafted free agent shortly after the NFL Draft, positioning him to compete for the long snapper role during rookie minicamp and training camp.[38][39] This opportunity arose without prior professional experience or early athletic specialization, contrasting sharply with the standard NFL trajectory where players typically enter via college drafts in their early 20s after years of dedicated youth and high school focus.[40] Boyer's path underscored the rarity of late-career entries, driven by demonstrated competence in a niche skill rather than pedigree or entitlement-based access. During training camp, Boyer exhibited physical resilience atypical for his age, participating in grueling sessions that he likened to military basic training in intensity but distinct in the emphasis on individual competition over unit cohesion.[41] He completed drills and practices alongside younger athletes, leveraging prior conditioning from Special Forces service to maintain performance without the advantages of lifelong sports optimization.[42] This empirical display of grit—sustaining output through adaptability and mental fortitude—challenged assumptions that youth and early specialization inherently outperform later-acquired discipline in high-stakes physical environments.[43] Boyer appeared in one preseason game against the Denver Broncos on August 14, 2015, snapping on five plays before the Seahawks released him four days later on August 18 to accommodate an injured player.[44][45] He never played in a regular-season game, yet his initial roster inclusion represented a symbolic milestone for non-traditional entrants, highlighting how meritocratic tryouts can occasionally bypass entrenched pathways favoring precocious talent over proven perseverance.[46] This brief stint illustrated the NFL's competitive meritocracy, where even exceptional resolve yields to roster exigencies and specialized depth charts.[47]Involvement in National Anthem Protests
Meeting with Colin Kaepernick
In August 2016, during the San Francisco 49ers' preseason games, Colin Kaepernick began sitting on the bench during the playing of the U.S. national anthem to protest what he described as racial injustice and police brutality.[48] [49] Nate Boyer, a retired U.S. Army Green Beret and former NFL practice-squad long snapper for the Seattle Seahawks, observed these actions and published an open letter to Kaepernick on August 30, 2016, in Army Times.[50] In the letter, Boyer expressed respect for Kaepernick's right to protest but argued that sitting appeared disrespectful to military veterans who had served under the flag, suggesting instead a form of protest that maintained greater deference to the anthem's symbolism.[50] [48] Kaepernick responded positively to the letter, and the two met in person shortly thereafter, around late August or early September 2016, in a San Diego hotel lobby ahead of the 49ers' preseason finale.[49] [10] During the discussion, Kaepernick reiterated his intent to draw attention to systemic issues of racial oppression and brutality by law enforcement, emphasizing that his protest targeted those problems rather than the military or flag itself.[8] [9] Boyer, drawing from his military experience, advocated for standing during the anthem as the fullest expression of respect but acknowledged the value of compromise to ensure the protest's message was not overshadowed by perceived disrespect.[8] [51] As a middle ground, Boyer proposed kneeling instead of sitting, noting that in military contexts, kneeling—with head bowed—signaled mourning and honor, such as at gravesites for fallen comrades, rather than defiance or submission.[8] [9] [52] Kaepernick agreed to the suggestion, and both implemented it by kneeling together during the national anthem at the 49ers' preseason finale against the San Diego Chargers on September 1, 2016.[49] [51] This marked the shift from sitting to kneeling in Kaepernick's protest method.[8] [9]Suggestion of Kneeling as Compromise
Following a private meeting with Colin Kaepernick in late August 2016, Nate Boyer proposed kneeling during the national anthem as a compromise to Kaepernick's prior practice of sitting, arguing that it would signal solemnity and respect rather than outright rejection. Boyer, drawing from his Green Beret service, noted that soldiers frequently kneel to honor fallen comrades at gravesites or in moments of reverence, positioning the gesture as a symbol of mourning and unity akin to prayer or battlefield tribute, rather than defiance or disengagement.[53][54] This approach aimed to preserve Kaepernick's First Amendment-protected intent to protest social injustices while fostering dialogue with veterans and others who viewed sitting as isolating and potentially divisive.[49] Boyer emphasized that kneeling allowed participants to remain engaged with teammates—joining them on the sideline instead of apart—potentially reducing perceptions of alienation and encouraging broader conversation over polarization. Kaepernick implemented the change starting at the San Francisco 49ers' preseason game against the Green Bay Packers on August 26, 2016, with Boyer attending as his guest.[49][55] Though designed as a measured, non-disruptive expression rooted in mutual respect, the practice rapidly disseminated to other NFL players, heightening its visibility and transforming it into a widespread emblem of protest that exceeded Boyer's initial vision of contained symbolism.[8]Public Backlash and Diverse Viewpoints
The suggestion of kneeling during the national anthem as a compromise gesture elicited swift and widespread criticism, particularly from veterans and conservative commentators who interpreted it as a form of disrespect to the American flag and military sacrifices. Many veterans argued that kneeling, even if intended as respectful, undermined the anthem's symbolism of national unity and honor for fallen service members, associating it instead with anti-patriotic sentiment amid broader debates on flag etiquette. A 2018 NBC News/Wall Street Journal poll found 50 percent of Americans viewed NFL players kneeling during the anthem to protest racial inequality as inappropriate, rising to 89 percent among supporters of then-President Trump, reflecting a partisan divide where 70 percent of Republicans deemed the act unpatriotic according to a contemporaneous Politico poll.[56][57] Left-leaning media outlets and activists, however, framed the kneeling protocol as a legitimate expression of dissent against systemic injustice, emphasizing its roots in military customs like kneeling for superiors or the deceased to argue it preserved respect while highlighting police brutality. This narrative often downplayed the gesture's potential to alienate unifying figures such as veterans, prioritizing awareness of social issues over the anthem's role in fostering national cohesion, despite empirical evidence from early polls indicating it exacerbated cultural rifts rather than bridging them.[58][59] Nate Boyer expressed surprise at the intensity of the backlash in a June 2020 interview, stating he could not envision kneeling being "construed as disrespectful" given its parallels to military protocols, yet he later acknowledged the gesture's role in deepening societal divisions by associating protest with symbols of shared sacrifice. While defending the action under First Amendment protections, Boyer reflected on how the protests shifted public perception toward confrontation over dialogue, contributing to eroded trust in institutions and a preference for awareness that overlooked tangible harms to national solidarity.[60][61][10]Advocacy and Post-Career Activities
Founding Merging Vets and Players
In 2015, Nate Boyer co-founded Merging Vets and Players (MVP), a nonprofit organization, alongside Jay Glazer, a FOX Sports NFL insider, to support transitioning combat veterans and professional athletes facing parallel challenges in civilian life, such as loss of purpose, structure, and camaraderie.[62][12] The initiative drew from Boyer's own experiences as a Green Beret and brief NFL player with the Seattle Seahawks, recognizing the shared high-stakes resilience developed in military operations and elite sports that could foster mutual aid.[63][4] MVP's core programs pair former service members with ex-athletes through weekly sessions that integrate intense physical workouts with structured peer-to-peer discussions known as "The Huddle," held in-person at chapters in cities including Atlanta, Chicago, Los Angeles, New York City, and Las Vegas, or virtually for broader access.[62] These activities emphasize transferring discipline and teamwork from uniformed careers to civilian contexts, alongside complementary offerings like trauma-informed yoga workshops, family events, and community retreats to build enduring support networks and reduce isolation.[62][64] Membership is free, enabling scalable participation without financial barriers.[62] The organization's approach has yielded qualitative benefits, with participants reporting enhanced morale, renewed purpose, and improved mental health through peer camaraderie that mirrors the intensity of their prior environments.[64] In May 2025, MVP expanded its mission to include all U.S. military veterans, irrespective of combat exposure, while maintaining focus on athlete integration, thereby amplifying its reach via nationwide chapters and online options.[62] This evolution underscores the program's adaptability to broader transition needs, supported by events like public workouts and partnerships such as Carry The Load.[62]