Lady-in-waiting
A lady-in-waiting is a noblewoman appointed to serve in the household of a queen, princess, or high-ranking female aristocrat, providing personal attendance, companionship, and assistance with daily routines such as dressing, correspondence, and courtly engagements.[1][2]The position originated in European royal courts around the 9th century, evolving from informal female attendants into a formalized role amid the growth of structured households that mirrored male retinues serving kings, with ladies-in-waiting drawn from aristocratic families to ensure loyalty and social parity.[3][4] Duties extended beyond menial tasks to include participation in ceremonies, entertainment, political networking, and even international diplomacy, often compensated through salaries, lodging, gifts, and opportunities for advantageous marriages or patronage.[5][2] In early modern Europe, such as at the Tudor or Habsburg courts, the role conferred significant informal power, enabling influence over royal decisions and serving as a conduit for factional politics, though access depended on family connections and demonstrated reliability.[6][7] While the title persists in contemporary monarchies like Britain's—where it denotes unpaid companions handling public duties and logistics rather than intimate care—the essence remains one of trusted proximity to authority, historically amplifying the agency of elite women within patriarchal court systems.[3][8]